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Relationship Violence StoriesI created this relationship violence stories page for people who would like to share their dating violence experiences.


What is relationship violence?

Relationship (or dating) violence is defined as the emotional, physical and/or sexual assault of one partner by the other in a dating relationship where the couple is not living together. Couples include:

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  • Male/Male


Some Dating Violence Statistics:

  • Almost 4 of every 10 females and 1 of every 3 males report being violent at some point in their dating careers.

  • More than 1/4 of victims and 3 of 10 offenders see violence in a dating relationship as a sign of love.

  • The average age of the first violent relationship experience is 15 years.

  • In Canada, 1 woman every 6 minutes is sexually assaulted.

  • 30% of female murder victims are killed by their intimate partners.


Are you a survivor of dating violence?

Has your dating partner ever assaulted you:

        •  physically
        •  sexually
        •  emotionally


Have you been too afraid to speak up about the abuse you've suffered through at the hands of your partner?

Have you been told that the abuse you suffered through "was your fault?" It WASN'T your fault!

If you've answered 'yes' to any of the above questions, this is the place to tell your story. Telling what happened to you could help someone else in the same situation, or even better, it could stop someone from getting into the same situation!

Be among those who have courageously shared their dating violence stories. The process is easy and offers notification options when someone comments on your story.




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Relationship Violence Story From Malorie  I had a boyfriend who took me out on a double date. He had been emotionally abusive, but when I finally was around a nice guy, I felt confident. I could ...

Relationship Violence Story From Shayla  I was 17 and in a relationship with a man who was 34. He was sweet to me and nice. At the time I was a runaway. I had nowhere to go and he offered me a ...

Relationship Violence Story From Annymonous  It's not your Fault:  It was summer of 2007 and my mom was having a 40th birthday party at her house. A girl the same age of myself was friends ...

Relationship Violence Story From Dimond  Well me and my boyfriend has been together for about five years and throughout our relationship it was times when I don't do what my boyfriend says he ...

Relationship Violence Story From Senia1  He told me he loved me:  I will always remember the day he said "I love you." It felt like my world had become better. We were dating on and off ...

Relationship Violence Story From Kaylynn  Kaylynn's Beating:  My boyfriend J. was the best boyfriend you could ever imagine. He was sweet and he would be great with my little brothers if ...

Relationship Violence Story From Sam1  Psychological, Physical and Sexual:  I came across this site and I wanted to share my story. It's quite disturbing but what I want to say to all ...

Relationship Violence Story From Name Undisclosed  Still Suffering:  When I was in college I got with the wrong crowd, and that is where I got my first boyfriend. It was fine at first, then he was ...

Relationship Violence Story From Helen  When I was in my early 20s (I'm now in my 40s) I went from the UK to the US on a student exchange programme. I stayed in New York for a few months and ...

Relationship Violence Story From Ashley  I met him 3 years ago. We worked together. He was so helpful, sweet, loving, his smile lit up a room, and his eyes had me hypnotized. Since we worked together ...

Relationship Violence Story From Taylor G  My boyfriend and I had been dating for about one year and our relationship was not going very well. We were constantly arguing over simple things and always ...

Relating to Relationship Violence Stories  Just to let people know that my comments to relationship violence story contributors are sincere/genuine:  Sadly, I spent a good part of my morning ...

Relationship Violence Story From Stephanie H  It all started when I was 15 years old. I was a super shy girl. My brother was 21 years old at the time and he was having a birthday party where there ...

Relationship Violence Story From Elizabeth K  Physical and Emotional Violence of a Teenager:  I was usually outgoing and opinionated until I met this guy Derek. It was quick love. It was summer ...

Relationship Violence Story From Crystal  My boyfriend and me have been dating for a few days. At first it was fun, but now he won't allow me to do anything he does not approve of. I can't talk ...

Relationship Violence Story From Bety  I was with this guy for 2 years, and at first he was the most charming man in the world. Little by little he started acting jealous, and I interpreted ...

Relationship Violence Story by Dania  "At this point, you can say it has been years."

His words echoed. His words froze time. There was no argument to justify the feelings. There is never ...

Relationship Violence Story From Sara  It started when I was 16. I had just lost my father to cancer and my boyfriend at the time seemed to be the only one there for me. How wrong was that! It ...

Relationship Violence Story From Kristy  This is actually the first time I have written about this. I am 22 years old and married, but I'll get to that.

When I was a senior in high school ...

Relationship Violence Story From Nilsa  This happened to me 2 years ago, and it still drives me crazy. I'm too ashamed to tell anyone. My girlfriend Emily is the only one who knows. After school ...

Relationship Violence Story From Madeline  Help...:  I'm 19. I was emotionally neglected/abused throughout childhood - I may have been slapped once or twice. I don't want to go into too many ...

Relationship Violence Story From Lauren  I've been with my boyfriend for two years. We met when I was 17. There were always signs, but at first I really loved him. Now I really don't. I now see ...

An invitation from Elaine Riley  Hi! I just thought I'd tell you that I have a "room" in the OpenSpace part of this site at Elaine's room . I've told my own little story of relationship ...

Relationship Violence Story From Nikki  I'm 17. My boyfriend of a year tells me I'm stupid. He calls me pathetic. He always seems to point out the negative things about me. Just today at school ...

Relationship Violence Story From Nicole  I'm 17 years old and I have made the mistake of getting engaged. My fiancee is close to 20, I thought he was my dream come true. Currently he has been ...

Relationship Violence Story From Sam  I am thirteen. A couple months ago, I had a boyfriend and I really loved him. Twice he made me run away from home. He said that it was because he loved ...




References

NOTE: Information pages on this site were based on material from the Canadian Red CrossCanadian Red Cross RespectED Training Program. Written permission was obtained to use their copyrighted material on this site.



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