Relationship Violence Story From Kaylynn

by Kaylynn
(Location Undisclosed)

Kaylynn's Beating: 
My boyfriend J. was the best boyfriend you could ever imagine. He was sweet and he would be great with my little brothers if I had to babysit them. He got along with everybody. But when he and I were in my room talking, I was texting one of my friends. When I went to go and use the bathroom he texted her things like I wanna f*%@ you or I love you. The next day my friend showed me this at school and I couldn't believe this. That weekend I told him it was over, and then he said it's not over until I say so. When I tried to leave he grabbed my hair and hit me in the eye and ribcage, then kicked me and said if you tell anyone I'll rape you. I never talked to him again.


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Aug 15, 2009
TELL someone about this violence...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

While I thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me, Kaylynn, I urge you to tell someone about what this boy did to you, otherwise you and other girls are at risk for more violence. You're worth so much more than that.

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Aug 15, 2009
Good Riddance!
by: Linda

Kaylynn....Throw the bum in jail for attacking you so viciously. Tell your parents what he did and let them get him out of society. If he threatens to rape you, he has some serious emotional problems. My boyfriend did rape me at the age of fourteen and my abusive parents forced me to marry him, because I became pregnant. Don,t let this this evil person destroy your life like mine was. My life has been hell because of it. Help his next girlfriend out and stop him now. Maybe he'll get the help he needs.

Aug 16, 2009
The survice levels of young and old can be trully deceptive
by: maurice

As you found out through your own trusting and believeing. Kaylynn, you be sure to take the advice of Darlene, i would not or could not add to her loving, caring, re-assuring words of concern and appreciation of your own self worth. and that of other girls that this deceptive male could abuse again by being violent to them as he was to you. He certaily used you, then abused your trust by what he wrote to your friend. His respect for you was limited, surfice level no depth in it at all especially in the way he re-acted when you said I don't want to see you again. Kaylynn great you shared your story with Darlene and her visitors. When all is said and done all that matters to GOD, IS YOU. You were brave to move away completely from that sad individual. It shows you have high respect for yourself, always do, Love yourself, always do, be gentle, knd, to your beautiful and wonderful self, always do. Remember you are the most important child of God/Universe ever birthed. Begin to build up slowly but very surely a powerful MIRROR image of yoursefl. It is not daft or silly of me to request that of you Kaylynn. wWth the help of your family, and friend or friends build up your own self worth and self esteem. In the MIRROR see the beautiful me, say I'm Special and I love me, be all of what I requested you to be in the mirror above. Hi be sure to warn off your Girlie friends of this tradgic individual of the Male speciaes. Be brave, be strong for yourself and them. Darlene is right in her affirming words to you.

Jun 08, 2011
Let Today be the New Beginnings with renewed determination
by: maurice

Always believe in yourself: Great to get this opportunity once again just to tell you I care about about you: I hope since I made my las comment you have been living one day at a time thinking positive thoughts about yourself: Acting on all the loving advice of darlene in a positive constructive way for your good: Being positive in all you do and say about yourself and your welbeing: I am: Truly Kaylynn: I will: I can: I must because I am WORTH it: just be safe: be loving: be gentle and kind: be firm: be fair and be a real friend to yourself: I will etc Kaylynn:

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