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Welcome to Ask Darlene, the page where you get to ask me your child abuse or site related questions.

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  • Do you have a question about a specific form of child abuse?
  • Are you unclear about what constitutes child abuse?
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If you've answered yes any of the above, or if you have something else you'd like to ask me, use the form below. Once I approved the contribution, I'll post the question and my answer as pages on my site, then visitors will be encouraged to offer their thoughts and comments. So go ahead, ask me. But before you do, check out the links at the bottom of this page; I may have already answered the question you want to ask.

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Child Abuse Questions on this Site:

Check out questions from my visitors on this page...

Is wedging of children by adult males considered sexual abuse?  Is wedging of young children sexual abuse by adult men? The children are all minor children. I have addressed the issue on two separate occasions with ...

Are these long-term effects of sexual abuse for male survivors?  I have very fractured memories of child sexual abuse and torture from when I was four, lasting about a year. Now I'm middle-aged and I see that my siblings ...

Disclosures of Abuse: How do I know for sure if my niece is being or was abused?  For the longest time, my niece, at the age of 11 and younger, complained about the way her mother treated her, that she was abusive, left them alone at ...

Should I continue to work or stay home with my baby?  I am a mother of an 18-month-old boy, and I am myself 22. I leave my son behind to go to a 9 to 4 job. My son is a very happy baby. He never complains ...

Stepfather showering with toddler: Is she being sexually abused?  I have a 2 1/2-year-old stepdaughter who told me the other day that her and her stepdad take showers together. Is there something wrong with this? My husband ...

Unable to make love with my husband: Could I have been sexually abused as a child?  Needing Advice:  I came across this site hoping to find some answers.
This may sound crazy but I do not remember being sexually abused. But I ...

I was sexually abused: Can I marry?  Hello Darlene. I want to ask a very valid question. I have been affected by this thing from 6 years to 12 years of my age massively. Now I am 22 and my ...

I want to report child abuse but I don't know their address: What do I do?  I have a family member who is abusing her 3 children. She gets a large amount of food stamps each month, only to cash them to people for cash and buy her ...

Older stepbrother makes my young niece rub his feet: Cause for concern?  My mother told me earlier today that my niece had told her something odd. My niece is 7 years old. She told her that her step brother of one year who ...

Didn't receive treatment for allergic reaction: Was I neglected?  I am an adult male that was raised in an alcoholic home. When I was 4 or 5, I had an allergic reaction to penicillin. It caused significant swelling in ...

From my son's mouth: How do we handle the disclosure?  Today my son, 4, was riding in the back seat of the car with me, mouthing the words to a Bon Jovi song and stopped all of a sudden. He looked at me with ...

Is "cutting" an effect of child abuse?  Can cutting be an effect of child sexual and physical abuse?

Reply from Darlene: Yes, cutting and other forms of self-harm are effects of child abuse:...

Is it sexual abuse when parents have sex in front of a child?  I was wondering if parents having sexual intercourse with a child present in the room (while the child is asleep or not) would constitute sexual abuse?...

How do I help my friend who disclosed sexual abuse?  HOW DO I HELP HER? One of my best friends, she's been physically and emotionally abused by various people, and also raped twice. She tells me about all ...

How can I get justice?  Pain:  When I was 3 my dad died. My mom started going with a man named Joe W. He abused me from the age of 3-10 very badly. When I said something,...

Concerned my toddler is being sexually abused...  I have never trusted my dad. I've seen him be uncomfortable when I caught him alone with the dog and later he read the bible, when I was pregnant.

My ...

Question on Statute of Limitations?  I was raised in Manitoba where I was sexually and physically abused as a child. I am currently living in Alberta. I am wondering if there is a statute ...

Can I disclose what my friend's dad did to me anonymously?  I have recently posted a story on this website ( Child Abuse Story From Maddison ) and have a few questions.

I want to report my friend's dad, but I ...

How do I stop my younger sister getting hurt?  I have read your other stories on this subject, but they all say to report it. I was wondering if anyone can think of different ideas.

I live with one ...

Suspect my toddler is being sexually abused: Don't know what to do?  I have a nagging suspicion that my two-and-a-half-year-old may have been, or may be, being sexually abused by her father. We are not together, but he does ...

My toddler was sexually abused at daycare: How do I function again?  Mom Gone Crazy!!!  I have just found out my 3-year-old was sexually abused at daycare. It has made me absolutely crazy!! I can't eat, sleep, or ...

When do I finally let go of the hope that my family will believe and support me?  Dear Darlene,
I have read your answers on "Why doesn't my family believe me" and "Why do families abandon incest victims" and though it helps to understand ...

How do I help my girlfriend who I think was sexually abused as a child?  I'm a lesbian, and I think my girlfriend of 2 years was sexually abused by her adoptive father. She doesn't trust, and she is very jealous. Could these ...

My sister is living with my abusive dad: Should I report to police?  My little sister is living with my dad. He is mentally abusive and he moved her to Florida. I am in California, and he has a gun. I don't know what to ...

If my son was sexually abused by a minor, what should I do?  What should I do if my son was sexually abused by another minor?

[Note from Darlene: Ale, your question got trapped in queue with a recent system glitch;...

Where can I find more information about sign and effects of abuse?  I want more information about the signs and/or effects of abuse?
Chat back soon.
Ana

Reply from Darlene: My navigation bar on the left has eight ...


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