Relationship Violence Story From Momo

by Momo
(New York, USA)

Im 15 years old and Ive been tlkn with T who is 19 ive only known the boy for about two weeks and he is already talking down on me calling me everyname thats not mine b***h, hoe, and all that and than after he finish curseing me out he writes me later that night or morning saying I get what I deserve for the moment, I dont know why he always yelling and cursing me out we just met I havnt disrespect him at all, I dont even text him first he be texting me bothering me I dont even be thinking bout him. For example it was three in the morning saturday he asked me would I happen to,be home at the hour I lied and told him no because I didnt want him to say come downstairs becUse he knows where I live we met in front my house, any way he said y you outside is cold you bugging. I told him I was in queens and I was on my way in, so he took like 20 minutes to reply, I fell asleep woke up to 2 messages saying tell me when yu ready and ima let you think on that. I txt him and said goodmorning I fell asleep he went off he said b***h you aint fall asleep you wass out f***ing keep it real I said no I was not and why you mad for, he said you aint no f***ing virgin and I am a virgin I guess he dont believe me than he said you aint my b***h anywayy he said other stuff too I just ignored it by not texting back, and he text me 5 minutes ago saying goodmorning sexy, I dont know what to do im alil scared.

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Feb 02, 2011
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

GET OUT! GET OUT NOW! You are in danger with this guy. He's exhibiting emotional violence against you. It's only a matter of time before there is a violent act against you. But not only that, he's of legal age and you're not. Do not allow yourself to be isolated by this guy. He's already controlling and manipulating you through texting, something that abusers do. Lean on your family and friends. Tell them all what this guy is already doing. Tell a counselor at school. Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). They have advocates available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week who can provide crisis intervention, escape planning, information and referrals to victims or anyone calling on their behalf. Visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser:

And while I thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me, at this point I much prefer if you reach out for help from an organization that can actually give you the help you need.

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