Relationship Violence Story From Cateyes

by Cateyes
(New Jersey, USA)

Mr Right... 
It all started in 3/10 I met this man in the emergency room we both were sick that day. we exchanged numbers and then we were talking texting day and night. I was a single mother who has been threw a lot with past relationships. I was so professional blow my mind with his conversations.. we got married in 5 months everything was great. then he beat my ass because I talked back to him. he became abusive in the bedroom he wanted to have Anal sex all the time he sent me to the ER he has messed up my anal and vaginal so bad that the Dr thought I had STD Herpes I wasn't at all it was so beat up I cried and said this isn't love it shouldn't hurt.

he was lazy didn't want to work. he finally got a job after I begged and complained at a Department Store that's when he became more abusive and distant from me he started to sleep on the sofa and get drunk day and night. and then become violent towards me. he would bring up my past I must've have not been a good woman because my babies daddies didn't marry me. he also said I was not a good mother that he would kill me and the only way he would leave my apartment is if I called POLICE so one night we are eating at the table he got so drunk and called me a lesbian and that I eat p***y mind you my 7 year old was in the next room heard everything that's when I decided it's enough I had it. It's my Apartment I pay all the bills in here I do everything he doesn't even have a car nothing he is talking to me like this f**k this I sent all the kids to play at the park I called the police had him removed out of my place

then he called me and said o you called the cops on me... you laugh now you think it's all fun and games well I said it's OVER BUDDY your games are over we are done. I haven't answered that phone the rest of the night.

I feel great I learned from this a lot I will focus on my kids and my self and read more and expand my mind to become a better woman. I feel free my house feels good at peace.. I am hurt I really loved him.

I also realized when all this happened the people who I thought were my friends were in fact not at all...after it's all said and done you only have GOD GOD and he is great!!!

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Jun 04, 2011
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I hope that your journey of healing and recovery will keep you and your children safe. You all deserve so much better than what this guy brought into your lives—this Mr Right was oh so wrong. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere: author. speaker. survivor. coach.
Darlene Barriere
author. speaker. survivor. coach
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Jun 13, 2011
Always believe in yourself: You'll be the winner over your abuser
by: maurice

You are already a winner for yourself and your two beautiful children: They are your life: love and cherish them by loving and acknowledgeing the brave, the strong, woman you were to get the police and end your life of misery, with a beast, anilmal of a man: who had no respect for being, born into the male species world: Great Cateyes you had the courage to do the right thing for yourself and your children: One finds out at a time of crisis who ones friends are: I know as I thought for years I had many friends but when the crunch came I really had only three: I sure hope you still have at least one/two to love and support you now: Heal slowly, think about some form of counselling it would be a great help Cateyes: You do always what you know to be best for yourself and your two gifts, special, children: They are your own flesh and blood: You are there mother: keep yourself safe: then your two beauties will be safe: you'll need help in the rearing of them as when they get older they will be wanting to know etc; so be loving and honest with them: Your seven year old is alert and intelligent she know there are bad men around her in this world: speak with her as a loving, caring wonderful and good mother Cherish both your children safeguarding them at all times: You'll need love, support and healing to be strong for them: My prayer is that you have one woman two women your own age as true friends who will be there for you: You'll are a winner Darlenes few brief words from her heart ponder on them and take them into your heart:

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