Relationship Violence Story From Molly

by Molly
(Wales, United Kingdom)

I'm 18 years old and when i was 15, i met my boyfriend, A. He was the best boyfriend anyone could ever have and i wanted to be with him forever, at first...

But then he changed, he started getting jealous, obssesive, he started forcing me to have sex with him, cutting me off from my family. But then it got worse, he started calling me lazy if i said no to sex, or call me a lying b**ch, he'd call me a slag or a whore. It really hurt.
But then he started hitting me, punching me, kicking me, giving me black eyes, he wouldnt let me call my parents to tell them where i was, and he would beat me till i couldnt take anymore. I tried to hide the bruises and the scars, but they showed. My mother asked about the black eyes and i said i walked into a wall or i fell down the stairs in school. She didnt question me coz she knew i have a temper. I was really scared to talk to anyone coz he told me if i did he'd hurt me real bad. I didnt know what to do.
Until one day i burst out crying in class, i said my eye hurt as an excuse and the teacher took me to the school nurse. I told her everything and I said i was scared. She told me she'd help me and i felt like i had new hope.
She told my parents and called his parents to pick him up and keep him away from me.
He had been emotionally and physically abusing me for almost 3 years. And when it was over i knew i was stupid not to tell.
Just goes to show I'm strong enough to pull through. In my eyes, anyone can do it.
Thanks for reading

Molly x

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Sep 03, 2010
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You weren't stupid for not telling; you were scared. Try not to beat yourself up for the decisions you did and didn't make. The most important thing now is that you HAVE told and he is no longer abusing you. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Sep 09, 2010
You were ever so brave and strong:
by: maurice

It took great courage Molly: Many reading your story would be spo proud of you: You gave many a teenager who find hem where you were at great hope and belief in themselves to tell someone: You truly are the best and your story while horrific, many will learn not to let that happen them: Sadly there are many teens like that Boy out there so you hav given girl teens the warning to put up with it: You are great: Now get on with living your life to the full: Stay safe: make yourself safe: One great way is to have a healthy mind in a healthy body: This means you will have to be active and alive taking part with your own age group and gender in sporting and cultural activities: This is one sure way to make genuine friends and aqauaintance who will help you to love and respect yourself and your body naturally: There is safety in numbers too: stay in education: Always believe in yourself: I will: I can: I must because I am WORTH it; live well: laugh alot love much beginning with your lovely and beautiful self: Be gentle and kind to yourself: Have real and genuine friends to walk with you through life: Thank you for telling: Darlene sure gave you affirmation lovingly for what you did:

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