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Child Abuse Story From Carmine

by Carmine
(Canada)




Sexually abused male child of 5 abused by female babysitter: 
I am 59 years. I was sexually abused when I was 5 years old in Canada. I am male and was abused by my female babysitter... and just recently met my abuser. I wonder if I can I sue and go after this person.




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Child Abuse Story From Carmine

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Jul 07, 2011
Carmine:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

My Ask Darlene segment on this site has now been permanently closed as I no longer have the time to devote to answering visitor questions. I will say this, in Canada there is no statute of limitations on child abuse. I wish you luck in your pursuits, Carmine, and I thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir


Jul 08, 2011
The inner strength of a child: Especially the ones that have shared their abuse
by: maurice

Yes, Darlene gave you encourageing words and you'll suucceed once you learn about all that is available or not in Canada to pursue your efforts wanting to make this person know she abused you and you still are effected by it in your life: Use all manner and means to check out your rights to tell on your abuser: I would say a good place to begin is to talk through with a therapist or counsellor all that this woman did to you during the times she was your babysitter: I wish you well: Your peace of mind is so important: Again trust a good and true friend with your need and what you should do: You'll do what is the best for yourself: seeing her around brings back the memory so find ways that will help you let go of that time too: Your counsellor will put it all in perspective for you: Carmine: It was not your fault: I am not to blame: live with that positivity:

Jul 10, 2011
think the same way
by: scott 1

Hello...I think the same way. If ever I figure out my abuser, what can be done to them all legal like. Im refering to abusive teachers of our day in oh Canada. Where are those answers and who is going to step up for us? When? At least they seem to have accepted responsabilty for the abuse of aboriginal children in the school system but what about the rest of us in regular public school. Are we the last in line or never? Carmine...good luck. I hope to live long enough to see.

Aug 21, 2011
I have been wondering when this would happen
by: My Two Cents

I've been wondering for the longest time when this would happen, that a survivor would sue an abuser. I'm really glad to read that someone is considering it and I hope you can post a new report on how it went later once everything is settled.

I hope your story inspires other survivors to consider following this path and holding the abuser(s) accountable for their actions.

Be well.

My Two Cents.

Aug 22, 2011
How Brave, How courageous: YOU deserve all the the inner strength that can be showered on you
by: maurice

Carmine: be sure: Be safe: Know what you are doing have the best of advice from your frinds and prosfessional: Two Cents I have appreciation the wisdom and knowledge shared in her comments: Always uplifting Just know exactly your rights and the details and who at that time could verify the type of abuse done to you I support you whole heartedly

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