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Sexual Abuse Disclosures



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Sexual Abuse DisclosuresMost sexual abuse disclosures are delayed. And of those children and youth who do disclose, between 8% and 22% recant true allegations of sexual abuse (Elliot & Briere, 19941; Sorenson & Snow, 19912).

FACT:  Elliot and Briere (19943) found that 75% of children did not disclose within a year of the first incident, and 18% waited more than five years.

FACT:  Sorenson and Snow (19914) found that almost three-quarters of children studied did not reveal abuse when first questioned.

Adolescence is a time for developing independence. During this time, secrets are often revealed. But first-time sexual abuse disclosures may sound unconvincing; they are often riddled with anxieties and inconsistencies. The coping skills that helped them survive are the very things that now alter their memory and perceptions. Add to that, other destructive and delinquent behaviours that child sexual abuse victims may display, it translates into adults invalidating the disclosure.

Adolescents who disclose may be wracked with guilt, fear, confusion, and anxiety. If adults invalidate the youth's disclosure, the anxiety is intensified. And even if adults do believe, often the threats the offender made to the child in order to keep the secret actually come true: the family splits apart or is divided; the offender is removed from the home (when the perpetrator is a family member), thereby splitting the family further; the youth's world begins to fall apart. If there are no supports and effective intervention of the sexual abuse, adolescents will retract sexual abuse disclosures.

According to Summit (19835): The lie "confirms adult expectations that children cannot be trusted. It restores the precarious equilibrium of the family. The children learn not to complain. The adults learn not to listen" (p.188).

Don't be one of those adults that don't listen:

LISTEN LISTEN then LISTEN some more!

Sexual abuse steals childhood away from children and youth. Regardless of whether the child/youth is male, female, able-bodied or disabled in some way, sexual abuse destroys the child's self-esteem and self-worth. They feel profound pain and experience overwhelming loss. The effects of sexual abuse clearly show that we pay dearly for this pain and loss, as sexually abused children run away, become addicted to drugs and alcohol, attempt suicide, and may go on to sexually abuse other children and youth.

As a society, we must set our biases aside. We owe it to our children and youth to believe and understand them when they disclose sexual abuse. And when we do receive sexual abuse disclosures from children, we need to the child or youth:

"I believe you."

"It's not your fault."

"It will never be your fault."


For more information, how to deal with disclosures has some excellent suggestions.





If you're a kid and you've been traumatized by abuse, check out never_ever_your_fault.htm The website is a refreshing approach to help you with self-esteem and accountability issues.




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Sex Abuse Disclosures




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Sexual Abuse EffectsVictims with Disability
Sexual Abuse StatisticsSexual Abuse Disclosures




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Victims w/ DisabilityEmotional Abuse Stats
Sex Abuse DisclosuresPhysical Abuse
Sex OffendersPhysical Abuse Signs
Male Sex OffendersAbuse & Discipline
Female Sex Offenders Physical Abuse Effects
Child Sex OffendersPhysical Abuse Stats
Adolescent Sex OffendersChild Neglect
Incestuous Sex OffendersChild Neglect Signs
Internet Sex OffendersChild Neglect Effects
Child Abuse LawChild Neglect Stats
Age of MajorityPoverty & Neglect
Duty to ReportSexual Abuse
Abuse InterventionSexual Abuse Defined
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References

Sexual Abuse Disclosures

NOTE: Information pages on this site were based on material from the Canadian Red CrossCanadian Red Cross RespectED Training Program. Written permission was obtained to use their copyrighted material on this site.

1 Elliot, D. & Briere, J. (1994). Forensic sexual abuse evaluations: Disclosures and symptomatology. Behavioral Sciences and the Law, 12, 261-277.

2 Sorenson, T. & Snow, B. (1991) How children tell: The process of disclosure in child sexual abuse. Child Welfare League of America, 70, 3-15.

3 Elliot, D. & Briere, J. (1994). Forensic sexual abuse evaluations: Disclosures and symptomatology. Behavioral Sciences and the Law, 12, 261-277.

4 Sorenson, T. & Snow, B. (1991) How children tell: The process of disclosure in child sexual abuse. Child Welfare League of America, 70, 3-15.

5 Summit, R. (1983) The child sexual abuse accommodation syndrome. Child Abuse and Neglect, 7 (2), 177-193.


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