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Jan 10, 2011
To Name Undisclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I can't even begin to know how you feel. The system certainly doesn't seem to be working for your son. One of the challenges you face is being accused of trying to deny access to your son's father without cause, even with the documentation. Child protection agencies are often more concerned about what they perceive as custody issues between parents than they are about protecting the children involved. You didn't identify where you live; but if you're in either Canada or the USA, try escalating the report to someone higher up in the child services organization. Consider escalating to your local member of parliament (Canada) or congressional representative (USA). Perhaps another visitor on my site can offer more in the way of concrete advice or suggestions. Stay vigilant for both you and your son. Thank you for sharing this with with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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Jan 11, 2011
My thoughts are with you both; You are a good Mother
by: maurice

Sadly there is no perfect solution to any form of protection to safeguard children: We think irt is great to set up legislation for the rights of children when we know the present system is so inadequate in valueing and respecting your child: When you a genuine Mother seeks help to protect him and being sidelined with red tape at each turn: My heart goes out to you and your child: Be brave: Be strong: Be persevering in making sure you child is safe and protected: Darlene has given you love and support and some pratical advice on what to keep doing: You are a good and great Mother: Keep being strong for both you and your child:

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