Abused At 3

by Tatyana
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When I was 3, it started. My dad was at work and I was home with my mom. She did something I will never forget and it haunts me in my dreams. She took a blanket and put it over my face. I couldn't breathe. But the reason why I'm alive now is that my caring, loving dad came home at the right time. My mom told me if I did tell dad, that she would lock me in my room without TV and food for 2 days. So I didn't tell him. I felt like my mom didn't love me. When my brother was born, she didn't pay attention to me. I was so sick of my mom treating me like crap, I almost ran away from home. I didn't, my dad loves me so much. When I turned 5, the abused got worse. My mom took a stick and hit it against my skin. It hurt so bad. She hit it on my arms and back. I still have the scars. When I turned 6, no more abuse, but the pain still hurt. In 2009 when I was 12, my mom left. I figured out it was a good time to tell dad about my abused story. I told him, and he told me, "Don't worry I have custody of you and your brothers". I have two brothers. They make me happy when I have the abused dream that haunts me. Now that I'm 17, I'm a Junior in high school. I'm doing well with my dad and two brothers. My brothers are 9,and 13 years old. I still thank my dad for helping me through my pain. I also thank the lord. That's my story.



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Dec 16, 2025
Tatyana:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your mother was a very troubled person. Whatever was going on in her life or from her past, she took out on you. What a blessing that she didn't succeed in smothering you. What a blessing that your father came home that day. And what a blessing that you have your loving father to keep you safe and to help you through this difficult time. Just always remember that what your mother did to you, how she mistreated you has nothing whatsoever to do with you, even though it certainly seemed like it at the time. What your mother did to you has everything to do with her. She was the one who couldn't cope. She was the one who lashed out.

The dreams that continue to haunt you can fade away, as long as you always remember that none of what happened was your fault and that what your mother did is not a reflection on you. It's a reflection of her inability to deal with whatever she was dealing with. You are perfect as you are. Don't ever forget that. I send you love, light and healing energy, Tatyana. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Dec 16, 2025
You are Blessed!
by: Linda

When I say you are Blessed, I mean having a wonderful dad who loved you and kept you close to him. I had a mother like you did and in my later years I realized she was the one with the problem. I was just her way to vent. I am so happy you are in a good place now, and don't ever think you deserved the abuse your mother gave you. You were her victim. Maybe your mom will get some help and stop hurting others.
, I hope so.

Dec 17, 2025
Such cruelty
by: Anonymous

I'm glad that you dad got custody of you and your brothers because he's such a wonderful man for doing that! I hope that you'll try counseling. Your mother really missed out so much that she never got the chance to enjoy a wonderful relationship that she could've had with such a beautiful, fantastic daughter like you.

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