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Feb 05, 2011
Kiley:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You are not free as long as you believe as you do. This abuser will go on to abuse others; that's what abusers do. They control and manipulate their partners. This wasn't your fault. What he did was HIS fault. You did nothing wrong. Fault lies squarely on his shoulders because he chose to offend. And don't ever believe that just because your dating someone or even if you're living with someone, that rape isn't possible. His message is twisted and sick. Please seek out some form of counseling for yourself so that you can determine why it is that you feel "love" for someone who was so abusive toward you. Love does not hurt, Kiley. That is for certain. You deserve better than such treatment, but if you don't believe that, you'll never make healthy choices for yourself. Please seek out help. Consider contacting the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). They have advocates available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week who can provide crisis intervention, escape planning, information and referrals to victims or anyone calling on their behalf. Visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.ndvh.org/

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere: author. speaker. survivor. coach.
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
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Feb 19, 2011
very moving
by: BMW princess

That was very moving.
I'm glad you got out. Nobody should be treated like that.

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