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Apr 25, 2017
To Sharon:
by: Darlene Barriere - Healing Coach

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

There is a difference between child on child sexual abuse and normal child sexual exploration. Please go to Child Sex Offenders on this site for more information on the differences.

I also strongly suggest you seek out some form of counseling, in order to determine what may have happened in your own childhood to expose you to such sexual exploits that you would have engaged in these sexual acts on other children.

I send you love and heartfelt healing energy.

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Apr 29, 2017
What i can do now, i am 24 now
by: Anonymous

Dear Darlene,
I was having bad experienced of "rewarding" my 4 years gap little brother if he did his homework... We didn't undergo sex intercourse, but we off clothes, kissing and touching each others, we stopped until someone knocked the door. Undeniably, i tongue kissed him numerous times under the blanket on another days when i was 7-8 and we stopped after i said i don't want to play anymore (i was 7-8), and tongue kissed my cousin brother 6 years gap when i was 12-13...
I don't know how to face the fact tht i was a child sex offender, i don't know what i can do now to compensate my mistake (i didnt repeat any of these anymore)
What can I do now?

Jun 23, 2017
Not alone.
by: Anonymous

I used to think about kissing my cousin on the lips. When I grew up I realized what I was actually thinking about. Part of me was deeply ashamed.
We were children and we didn't know any better. You are not a horrible person and certainly not a child sex offender. Maybe working with sexually abused kids might help relieve that guilt.

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