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Aug 23, 2009
You ARE lovable, and worthy of dignity and respect....
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your father is the one with the problems. There is NOTHING wrong with you. He is troubled about something and is taking it out on you. He isn't thinking clearly. And yes, you are experiencing child abuse: emotional child abuse, in particular rejecting. While I can't tell you what to do, except to contact a national child abuse hotline, I can point you toward a page on my site that might help to explain (not excuse) why your father has singled you out: Why parents target a specific child for abuse.

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Aug 24, 2009
Great You Found this site and had the courage
by: maurice

You are one very special human being behind the undisclosed 21 anonyminity. Don't let that worry you here because With Darlene watching over her site like a beaver and caring for each one personally you are in good hands. Her comment to you tell's you you are being abused. Lously by your father who if he is an intelligent business man. I guess his problem is personal to him. Gives him no reason to treat you or abuse you emotionally the way he does. Be brave, Be strong for yourself. Share what you have written with your Loving/Caring Sister so that apart she too will be your help in coping with your fathers demeaning and uncalled for remarks and doing not so nice things to you. like giving your pet away. Yes, you are a wonderful and true beautiful human being/female. With the help of your sister and your friend or friends whom you have related and trusted with your belly button inner feelings intimately with. A talk with a counsellor/therapist would be a great help to you too. Giving you the inner believe and strength in yourself to tel your Father he is hurtful and abusive to you in the way he treats. He certainly is not respecting You for the beautiful woman you are. You'll be fine, Please LOVE yoursefl above anything else. Say loving positive things to yoursefl daily and especially in front of your very private space time in front of the mirror. Value your owns self, build up your own self worth and self esteem. Always believe in YOURSELF. I can, I will, I must just for me. I'M SPECIAL AND I LOVE ME>

Aug 25, 2009
Stay strong, you are worth it!
by: Anonymous

Please sweetie, he is not worth you taking your own life. Before you know it you will be old enough to leave him and start getting help and healing from his abuse and yes it is abuse!
Please stay strong and positive and think of your sister when you are in those desperate times of wanting to end your life, it would destroy her."Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem". You can and will get through this.
Best of luck,
Rita

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