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Rocks, wool, plants and tools

by Name Undisclosed
(Australia)

Rocks certainly do rock! I have personally built more than 35m of drystone wall about 1m high out of uncut basalt rock. Blistered hands, callouses, aching arms-back-legs? You bet! And worth every bit. Finding just the right rock takes all your mental energy and spatial reasoning - never let it be said that women can't do spatial reasoning as well as men.

I also bought a rundown old house with a very overgrown garden that I have started to restore. I started by pulling out all the weeds and uncovering the structure of the old garden. It is a thrill to see the plants come up once the weeds have been cleared away and they have sunshine and room to breathe.

The house is also in need of a lot of love and care and I am slowly (very slowly) rebuilding and repairing. It has seen the damage of time and some rather poor decisions from previous owners, but I am taking up the tools and putting back to how it should be. I love my growing collection of power tools, hand tools and some wild design-your-own tools that I have purposely built.

In between times, (and I have to say this keeps me fairly well occupied in my down time), I knit! Knit knit knit. Bunnies, bears, mice, cars, sheep, scarves, beanies, blankets, anything. Then I give it away before I am overrun with woolen objects.

I think all of these things have the benefit that you can see the results of your hard work. That always leaves you feeling like you have achieved something.

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May 20, 2008
Kindred spirits...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I smiled earlobe to earlobe as I read through your list of well-earned physical maladies, and the pride with which you register them. Then, rebuilding/restoring a rundown old house; the gleeful gardener in you; your love of power tools, hand tools and makeshift tools; all this juxtaposed with knitting bunnies! Yes, your post certainly lightened my load today; I extend you a heartfelt, kinship-felt smile!

If you decide to send photos, I would be happy to include them with your post. If you do send pics, in order to avoid an error message, I suggest re-sizing the snaps to no more than 800 X 600 pixels.

Thank you for sharing your delightful "achievements."

Darlene Barriere
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Jun 14, 2008
Girl power!!!!!
by: Anonymous

I'm smiling too. What a wide range of talents you have.

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