Child Abuse is Soul Murder

by BMW Princess

People who traumatize others through abuse rape or otherwise need to be held responsible for what they do.

I consider destroying someone's personhood to be as bad as murder. Even if you emotionally scar someone you should be liable. Ignorance is no excuse. There are people who enjoy hurting others and they should be held responsible. Some people can lie and manipulate.

In Canada you can sue for emotional distress but it takes about 3 years. The person can lie. They can manipulate the person you hurt and make them feel like a bad person. It's the person who's doing the abuse or traumatizing you who has the problem. A person is profoundly weak pitiful and cowardly if they hurt someone who can't defend themselves. They won't hurt someone who can. That's cowardly. IMO

In the afterlife you see what kind of person you were. If you're a bad person you answer for that. Or at least my gut says so. Oh intuition please be right!

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Oct 06, 2010
BMW Princess:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and beliefs about this issue with my visitors and me.

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Oct 06, 2010
That's a big thumbs up !
by: Anonymous

I am in total agreement. Thanks for posting that.

Oct 07, 2010
Be aware of those who can kill the body But not The Soul or The Spirit
by: maurice

You are wholeheartedly right: Emotion abuse takes a long long time to heal from: All forms of abuse take time if we don't have the courage and the Spirit to challenge and blame our abusers: Or deal with our abuse in a caring: loving way looking after num one in it (MYSELF) Thank's to Darlene's Site we begin that process with her expert advice and encouragement with helpful words from her woman's heart: She is very empowering for each of her visitors: But writer of this trueism The one thing and most important thing our abusers can't kill in us is our Spirit to love ourselves (Myself) The will and the Spirit to be gentle and kind to ourselves and the body that was abused: The Soul and the Spirit are our preciousness that can't be killed: Hurt beyond healing: That is why it is so important when Darlene speaking about counselling: that is our sure hope of bringing the Spirit within us into action: Oh yes, she sure uses loving, caring, re-assuring words, is fir and fair in expressing those word because she knows we have to let the natural will power within is which is the spirit to get off our bottom and begin the healing process from whatever forms of abuse: A counsellor/Therapist is a must in all situations and if they ain't available a real FRIEND: I can empatise with you when you say Soul Murder: But I believe it is the scars, the bruises, the memories of the sexual or physical and the effects of it on us that we have the power within us to heal which I believe is my soul and my spirit that they did not kill: They may have for a time killed them but only myself can bring them alive to be the winner over abuse: Thank you for bringing out my thoughts on your heart felt feelings:

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