Abused By Mum's Boyfriend

by Francesca
(United Kingdom)

When I was younger my mum met this man and he started sexually abusing me when I was 6. This happen every day of my life till I was 8. He used to shout at me to come in his room and if I didn't he came downstairs and full wacked me in stomach.


Don't really want to say everything. Too painful. But my sister knew what was happening. She saw it and didn't get me help. She blackmailed me instead. He said if I told anyone he'd throw me out of the window. We lived in high-rise flats at times.

I used to wake with him in bed, naked. It hurts so much. Still hurts to this day, and I'm 25. And now I like to help those who have been through what I have. It took me two books to right what happened to me. No one been there for me, so I want to be there for other people.



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May 21, 2015
Francesca:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I commend and applaud that you want to help others who have endured and suffered in the same way you have. By helping others, that is a way to help yourself and bring more healing to you.

But I also know the value of doing some healing for yourself first. Often times, when people go to help others but they themselves have not done any real healing, they end up being triggered. And that can put them in an even more difficult state. Yes, I believe in making your life and what you endured purposeful, but never at the expense of your own well-being. Your own well-being is so important. I do hope you'll take good care of yourself first. You certainly deserve that.

I send you love, light and healing energy, Francesca. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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