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Oct 02, 2014
Donna:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

The fact that your parents didn't want you and neglected and abused you in horrible ways had nothing whatsoever to do with you. They were so twisted and incapable of taking care of you or your siblings. And now you're left with the aftermath. The anger and hostility and the prison that all that brings. You had no power as a child. They had all the power. But as an adult, you can now take your power back. What that means is that you now have choices you didn't have as a child. Choices that can bring to you what you didn't get as a child. Choices like loving yourself in a way that you were never loved as a little girl. And the first loving thing you can do for yourself is to treat yourself with the dignity and respect you deserve. Always remember that you are worthy of love. Always remember that love doesn't hurt or harm. Love is within you, You need only drop into your heart space (possibly through meditation or yoga or some other relaxation technique) to feel it deeply. Treat yourself well, Donna. Seek out various healing modalities that will keep you on your healing path. You deserve that. I send you love, light and healing energy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Oct 02, 2014
Such uncontrolled sadism
by: Anonymous

Donna, your parents were messed up in the worst way. I hope you're out of that house and in a safe place now because you deserved better. I hope you have sympathetic relatives who would be willing to take you in. Anyway, have you told the teacher yet? Or a principal? Or a police officer? Or even a counselor? As for the sexual abuse part, they should be in jail for that because they could be sexually violating other innocent kids too. My heart goes out to you. I think it's time that the government should make people take parenting classes (yes, this includes parenting exams). BTW, what they did to you is BAD PARENTING and bad parenting really needs to stop, so TELL, TELL, TELL!!!

Oct 28, 2014
unwanted by parents
by: Anonymous

I had a boyfriend when I was 14 to 16 . I LOVED HIM VERY much. HE WOULD HAVE MARRIED Me,if it wasn't for my family. Growing up i can only rember my dad talking to me about 5 times. My mother if you want to call her that, allways said shehated me .i allways remember her saying Do you kids want to live in a home? I HATE THESE KIDS she would lock me in a closet for hours pull my hair kick me in the back where i had surgery for my kidneys because when i was a baby she kicked me in my side across the floor she hated me never any food in house. One night we were watching tv and my dad came home drunk layed on the floor and started to ejackulate in front of us and my friends we all got up ran out . I never saw my boyfriend again . When i was about 7 or 8 my mother gave me a sponge bath in the kitchen there was a mirror in the hall that my dad would look into and see me naked and pleasure himself my mother knew i he's looking at me he's looking and she said no he's not then she took the washcloth and upswinged to my vaginia which hurt really bad i was crying and ashamed i hate them i know you are supposed to forgive so you can move on and be happy but i can't i am 65 and wish i would die.

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