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Dec 07, 2010
Laurie:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm going to be extremely frank with you: This boy IS hurting you. And if you think for one second that he isn't, read and re-read the story you submitted. You are in a cycle of violence, and the violence WILL escalate. You must get out of the relationship and get the help you need to keep him out of your life. You say you love him, but no matter what you say about him, there is nothing that will convince me that you can actually love someone who is abusive. There is something else going on in your life. If you think you can "fix" him, you're putting yourself in greater and greater danger. Please seek counseling to determine why it is that you feel you can do no better than someone who is abusive, someone who will continually get MORE abusive. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere: author. speaker. survivor. coach.
Darlene Barriere
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Dec 08, 2010
Get Help: NOW: Get your life together: Become strong:
by: maurice

Laurie: simple: Get away from that uncontrolled freak, abuser, he won't change: But then if you want and like his violence than why did you write on Darlene's site: It was your cry for help: Darlene has given it to you in her comment: If you are genuine than you will take her loving, encourageing, helpful advice: I want what is the best for you as does Darlene: You must want it for yourself: Get a real friend or two in your own age and gender and get to hell away from him: He won't change once he knows your compatible to his wishes and whims: Violence is no part of a loving relationship: Don't be fooled and don't fool yourself:

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