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Aug 30, 2010
Kate:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Never tie your self-esteem with that of someone else. You are worthy without anyone else. And you deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. Rather than wishing something else had happened, consider that you are now more experienced in life as a result of what happened, and you will now make better healthier choices for yourself. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere: author. speaker. survivor. coach.
Darlene Barriere
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Aug 31, 2010
from someone who remember s when listen to advise dont put self in bad situations again you be fine great heart
by: Anonymous

first off who knows if he is the same person on his fb, that might be a place for well men like him , who knows , you should go out with friends never alone meet someone go in groups anyway, so someone knows where you are you go off or warns you say no that guy nut and such,
alot of people get hurt, dating and all these day and old days too, you chalk him off as fun but wrong kind of fun , bad for you kind of fun, the vigirn stuff , save your heart soul for love , it doesnt sound like love anyway, next time you look for fun you be in control safe all that, dont let it go that far, you go out groups then you allow someone take you dinner or whatever thats it dont go home or wherever, if you serious you be certain that that person too serious ask, then BEFORE YOU GO TO THAT POINT, right up front say i dont like this or i dont like that after you get clear what intentions are on both your and other persons side, then if someone crosses your boundries then well legal stuff all kind of embarassing things you can do,
if you loved him you would have know i dont see love and he is drug addict and wierdo to some degree, think , men well fair weather when you got youth and looks and things money then you find out later who loves you in the end, those that hurt you better off with out anyway i know that hard fact but its so true and the babies god knew not meant to be they be renincarnated in when the time comes i beleive that i am christian, maybe sounds stupid to you but thats what i beleive, in,
god knows what he is doing we dont. i wish i was young and your time in life i was attractive young back then but i dont envy you the hardships i give advise to be safe friends there groups , and to be selective and caustious but still have fun and wait to get serious for the very very right person, just still try to have fun no druggies though and hits slaps yeah i dumped someone backin the day sam3e type sent me roses for a month after i left too bad threw flowers out each day i think goood i was, you got to get tough with those type back dump em who cares about him you got good heart save it please for great guy going to come along,

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