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Aug 13, 2010
Caroline:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

While I thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me, I must say to you that this 17-year-old sexually assaulted you! Don't tell his parents; tell YOURS, and then report what he did to the police. You are going to need to get passed the self-blame. The moment you said "stop" or "no" to this boy, it bacame sexual assault. It wasn't about being firm enough in your refusal. Stop thinking about what this boy "used" to be. He's a sex offender, and he will very likely offend again. And don't ever go back to that house again otherwise you will be at risk.

Darlene Barriere: author. speaker. survivor. coach.
Darlene Barriere
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Aug 14, 2010
Be brave: Tell the relevant people who will make you safe
by: maurice

Caroiline: You have that special friend you were with when he took advantage of your afraidness: Darlene really has given you loving, caring, supporting words to help you tell the relevant People: Your Parents; The police: Thay will protect you from this sex offender: You are a sensible and highly intelligent to know he did not respect you you when you said NO, STOP: I am certain you do not want that to happen another innocent beautiful girl: Your friend will help you: She told him get lost: She will understand when you ask to help you tell on him: I can, I will< I must for other beautiful girls sakes: Then Caroline after you feel the relief of having told on him: Get on with living your life to the full with your friends and college mates: Get out there with them being active and alive in healthy sporting and cultural activiteis: This will give you a healthy mind in a healthy body: Love and value your body and no better way to do that but be gentle and kind to it: Soothe away those bad memories he did on it by letting it be the beautiful body it is: Build up your own self worth, self esteem I@M SPECIAL and I am going to LOVE me; mixing with your own peer groups in healty pursuits will give you plent of opportunity to trust another in relationships: There is safety in numbers: Caroline Darlene has re-assured you so act on her wisdom and loving words:

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