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Mar 31, 2008
Questionable conduct...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

It does seem very odd that a judge would shut you down when you were in the middle of showing him medical records as proof of abuse. Perhaps the judge rendered your attempt as a custody battle issue; but I cannot say one way or the other. If you are saying that there are medical records that act as proof of child abuse against your daughter, under Pennsylvania law, the health care professionals who treated your daughter were legally obligated as mandatory reporters to make a report. Whether it was you or a health care professional, someone should have reported the case to Child Protective Services.

I'm not a lawyer, Paul, so I cannot offer you any legal advice. Perhaps one of my visitors can offer some form of assistance.

A Sidebar to Paul: There was a glitch to the posting system this morning. It has since been rectified. My apologies if you received more than one notification that your contribution was posted, and under two different titles.

Darlene Barriere
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Mar 31, 2008
hmmm
by: Anonymous

when was this?

Apr 01, 2008
Cruel Judge
by: Francine

Paul, I am so sorry that no one wanted you to save your daughter from your ex-wife. Even the judge is so heartless! The whole system let you down, Paul, the whole system. You might want to call the cops on your ex-wife and that so-called judge and tell the cops that your ex was trying to kill your daughter and that the judge didn't care. They will not allow her to have your daughter. Take care!

Apr 01, 2008
let ya'll know more about the case that i may have forgot.
by: Paul Bukovinsky

well Darlene the problem is, is that my ex and her family have money and I am just a blue collar worker . I just was talking to a cop the other day and he said that i was being messed around with because in PA they favor women over men . and she also has money , But in the medical records my ex lied to the doctors about the attempt on my daughter's life so they thought it was an accident . On another note when i picked my daughter up form my ex more than once she had bruises all over her body and YES even her neck . because my ex tried to choke her .I did report it 4 times and had pictures and YES even a tape that my ex comfessed to me that she was abusing my daughter but she has been lying just to try to stay out of jail .

Feb 22, 2009
Removed by webmaster
by: Paul Bukovinsky

***Edited by Darlene Barriere - Webmaster***

Note from Darlene: Paul, I cannot post your comment since the accusation you are making is currently unsubstantiated. I trust you understand the position I am in with regard to this issue.

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Darlene Barriere
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Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Feb 24, 2009
why darleen
by: Paul Bukovinsky

why can't you post that I have stated facts and on top of that the other postings were just like my last one and you posted them . Did my ex or her lawyer contact you and tell the truth i do know when people lie its okay if they did get to you i just don't get it . if my ex or her lawyer did say or do something that means i can't use your web site I have that right to know cuz if they are then i'll stop then and post everything about my case else were .just so you do get bothered by them .okay !!

From Darlene: No, Paul. Your wife, nor her lawyer, nor anyone else contacted me. I made the decision based solely on the fact that you were making an unsubstantiated accusation (which I already stated). There is a difference between what you wrote about your case and what you are now alleging. My decision is final, Paul. I suggest you do start writing about your case elsewhere if this is the direction you are attempting to take with regard to the way you want to use my site.

And just for the record, if ANYONE had contacted me with regard to your case, I would have written so here within this comment thread; in fact, I would have created a brand new page for it in order to gain greater exposure. I don't take well to threats or ultimatums.

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Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Mar 14, 2009
Removed by webmaster
by: Anonymous

***Removed by Darlene Barriere - Webmaster as copyrighted material, material that I cannot even substantiate***

Note from Darlene: I have decided to close this thread, as it has become obvious that an ugly custody battle is ensuing with regard to this case, and I will not allow this site to become a hub for that kind of battle.

A Video Reading by Darlene Barriere
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir


Mar 27, 2011
congrats
by: Anonymous

Congrats to the webmaster for seeing through a custody battle. I can assure you first hand that the child in question is both very much alive and has blossomed into a beautiful vibrant soul. Sadly the matters at hand has split a family up to a broken home but sometimes that is indeed for the better. The child in question has a incredible mother who would sacrifice life and limb for it and has also assumed the role of mother for another child who is not her own

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