Comments for Feel Guilty Now

Click here to add your own comments

Mar 24, 2017
To Pamela T:
by: Darlene - Webmaster

This pedophile wasn't having "sex with" your sister, he was sexually abusing her. And he took advantage of you in the same way. I do understand the guilt you're feeling; I have felt that guilt myself. It doesn't mean the guilt is well-placed. He was the one who did something wrong, not you. And yes, he very likely did the same thing to others, including his own birth children; sex abusers don't stop until they're made to stop.

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. I send you love and heartfelt healing energy.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Mar 25, 2017
Feel Guilty Now - By: Pamela T. (my comment)
by: Anonymous

Pamela T - I am currently in emdr therapy & am facing now that not only did step-father molest me and my sister, my dad molested me too. I am in mid-session and am filled with so much guilt, shame, and depression trying to close in around me. I understand. I know intellectually - not my fault, yet betrayal of dad (ridiculous!) keeps playing in my mind. Thank you for your post/comment. Jade

Click here to add your own comments

Join in and write your own page! It's easy to do. How? Simply click here to return to Write Your Child Abuse Story.

Return to Feel Guilty Now

Disclaimer: To the best of my knowledge the child abuse
stories on this site are true. While I cannot guarantee
this, I do try to balance the need for the submitter to be
heard and validated with the needs of my visitors.



E-book: Victim To Victory

From Victim to Victory
a memoir

How I got over the devastating effects of child abuse and moved on with my life

Read more...

Most Recent

  1. The reasons I've been absent

    Nov 14, 17 01:30 PM

    It's been another challenging time for me. As I actively work toward an online program for survivors of sexual abuse, I've also had to deal with issues at home. Hubby has been diagnosed with 2 types o…

    Read More

  2. I Self Medicate

    Jun 26, 17 04:40 PM

    When I was 3 we left Illinois for Arizona. The day we left my grandfather had a heart attack and died. I have one uncomfortable grainy memory of him. I

    Read More

  3. Ongoing Abuse

    Jun 06, 17 03:03 PM

    I'm 15/16. I am still getting abused physically, mentally and verbally by my family especially my mother. I don't understand what to do to overcome this.

    Read More

E-book: Victim To Victory

From Victim to Victory
a memoir

How I got over the devastating effects of child abuse and moved on with my life

Read more...