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Jul 04, 2011
first thing i saw was your face and your bum either be noticed it woulnt effect abusers they abuse any reason face or bum
by: Anonymous

this is wierd i was just talking about this
to husband, all of it not well even part about where it all started in his family not mine ok where his great whatever pervert grandad married a teen ager , and about why i am modest now cover self not show skin i am old but not fat he say i am so to get me all upset so i show skin i am not like that, even when i show skin ect, you said this your self they go by example mostly you so dont worry , one time my kids guidance couselor said to me when i didndt want my girl wear makeup she say ok fine dont let her then an you rather her go after boys and i thought you are right and i let her wear that makeup and she didnt change as a person or a kid , you need to have faith in who the child is and it wont matter if they dress up dress down any of that a pedofile dostn care
advertising sex is different ok i can say exactly what i mean by that i guess for you it be a fine line you draw to decide its your kid , advise is follow your first instinct any time i didnt was when later i regreted it as a parent regarding this type of thing, but i do install rule s when i read this i thought how funny cause i was thinking talking about this today and one good thing is you didnt say they didnt dress femine or masculine imagine that be worse , girls dress like boys an boys like girls, and send kids to private schools then or smaller ones but every rose has its thorn no perfect world anywhere and old saying pic your battles carefully with kids
i think boudries is one way to teach a kid how to be a kid an also to fit in and mostly be a leader i studied fashion ok and leaders in industry can lead any style ok being a leader is key to this trends ok someone start wearing victorian cloths cover thier necks even it catch on here come that fade so really be realistic leadership ok thats all you need to do one time i did these hair beads made them clips for girls hair my kid next thing i knew i had to make them for all the girls

Jul 04, 2011
nice face nice bum god beauty you born an nature too abuser wont care either way they sick in the mind ok rethink this idea
by: Anonymous

i dont think the trend anymore is what you think it is matter fact what i saw was very old fashioned what you wearing very very . you think dressy an aluring in usa well one other thing i like old fashioned alot too but its how you wear it too , example you said leather let me think i studied fashion too , a kid ok , boy was it or girl not sure what you said but here , add a hat add western theme trend or if disco you said a bandana or head gear thats little boy little girl accesories are very child like , why they say dont kids have different accesories than adults yes yes they do just be logical, add kid stuff when your kid want to do that and see that suggest it to them add a little pony tie or a kid accesorie so they know they a kid feel a kid have fun with cloths ok its not that hard , then you compromise and the very most important thing is trends any thng can come an go you be the leader make your kid that lead old fashione stuff find some fun way to do it so he an or she be a trend setter for good reasons moral reasons you teach . teen example wear hot pants but add or down play it by using plain accesories not bright colors stand out or high shoes or that , wear a preppy type necklace or hair plain or pulled back old fashioned ther ways to be trendy look good and still do it with class ok young teens , but a women beautiful is that an no cloths hide it or change it an that to is hard it wont start or stop abusers ok i dont beleive hide beauty god give you, an you onloy young onece in life too do not be ashamed to be beautiful hide that be smart , cloths an trends are not why or our socieity why kids get abused ok if you advertise it yes people do get wrong impressions yes kids an teens can only learn from mistakes , parents well i used to hide what i wear under coat or change later so how a dad know that see you cant change trends or can you since you so smart then see if you can experiment with that idea be a trend setter make it popular then see , look on etsy ever seen the upcycle cloths they all old fashioned they got lace victorian things popular you are wrong an the clubs ok maybe but its still better than them drinking and druggin ok remember pic your battles, kds who get bored sit around they look for things to do drugs drink ther isnt a perfect world sorry, computers are nice then you a nerd and then say go out have fun whatever a kid cant win when a parent has unrelistic ideas about life we can protect them and then hope we tauht them enough deal with the world but god sake dont blame fashion its antoher ting they love fashion cloths my kid had some sick shirt on an that day ended up doing stuff i got mad at that but what you talking about is not true , at least in usa, an there ways to deal with this , and i never seen a preteen club for eight year olds where the hell is that, that sick

Jul 04, 2011
you remind me of me when i say innocent i wanted to change the world my friend got mad said so does everyone i thouht i was only one back then innocent
by: Anonymous

i dont blame our fashion world for abuse , but tightness or short or not depend on your body type and i dont beleive that be excuse say its reason abusers abuse, because of fit of cloths , i do not abusers know a kid an difference an abusers know its wrong dont blame the fashion industry the only thing i agree is the one single time shirt say something yes thats dumb advertise that, sex or whatever yes , but other than that i just suggest you set a new trend since you so smart been reading up on all this socialization an kids an women stuff i bet you do great, i hope your kid ok an whoever it is boy girl you have faith in more , the socializaton part i well have no clue what you are talking about because i have tauht both to my kids an they followed my lead every single time so i think prepy is ok an so is pretty boys i dont know why not if a little kid give kid little kid accesories compromise if your kid want to dress up strange , its not society fault at all ok not one bit fashionn fault we

Jul 04, 2011
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by: Anonymous

i dont blame our fashion world for abuse , but tightness or short or not depend on your body type and i dont beleive that be excuse say its reason abusers abuse, because of fit of cloths , i do not abusers know a kid an difference an abusers know its wrong dont blame the fashion industry the only thing i agree is the one single time shirt say something yes thats dumb advertise that, sex or whatever yes , but other than that i just suggest you set a new trend since you so smart been reading up on all this socialization an kids an women stuff i bet you do great, i hope your kid ok an whoever it is boy girl you have faith in more , the socializaton part i well have no clue what you are talking about because i have tauht both to my kids an they followed my lead every single time so i think prepy is ok an so is pretty boys i dont know why not if a little kid give kid little kid accesories compromise if your kid want to dress up strange , its not society fault at all ok not one bit fashionn fault we choose fashion due to trends an become leaders in trends , ther wereidos out there fashion industry seen some of them come on think if they can do this so can you for your own kids come on, an i just thnk you way over the top on this one but i understand i been there makeup thing . and i cant

Jul 04, 2011
i just think fashion in some cases hav saved kids from other bad stuff druggs and drinking an well too important an creative to attack fashion world
by: Anonymous

and i cant stand alot of things same idea i am mad at is that same principle i cant go out to parks safely i love nature its not safe these days thats beauty nature parks animals flowers why i cant be safe see why do we have to hide beauty humans too so that an abuser wont get us come on can you solve that , at least fashion there some play in it hide or add stuff downplay or dress up what you do about god beauty nature our streets hide an hide that too we cant walk alone outside in parks jogg and other stuff you got it all wrong beauty is beauty fashion is beauty, too i refuse to give up beauty any kid human or nature to hide from pedofiles or abusers rather use stunn gun or change laws defend self another thing teach kids logistics oh god now i get myslef in trouble but its true ok why sacrifice the world aorund us what fun there is to be in fear remember no fear saying where you thnk they got that from , we need to stand up to them how not by changing our beautiful world an people an fashion either. yes joggers that wear long pants get raped ok fact in our parks what you thnk world shoud do protect us
not hide us hide no one in parks anymore that either you decide i did good job i could protecin myslef an family kids an had fun loads of fun too an fashon an beauty , they know logistics they are street wise ok sad to say but needed ok fact that an you be better off than think this way. its not the world this is wonderful world soiciety fun creative and well you need to rethink this . you are right about abousers wrong about our world its good the mind of an abuser see beauty an wants to steal it innocence or take a beautiful place destoy others enjoy it prey on us dont you see this, i hope my kid my girl do school better job grow up find someone love protect her , protect each other an well thiis is sad to me since i feel women exploited too but we are beautiful arent we in animal world the male species is more fancy isnt that funny, kids they always be kids in mind of a normal person, you really need to have faith again rethink this how you go about this idea change you do tell us comment again because i be itnerested see what you did make a difference change evil.

Jul 04, 2011
i think you basically be one to make all these good changes if you see things a little differently
by: Anonymous

Here is logical proof of my long comment reply
an abuser will say a beautiful thing is ugly fat or other its a fact of doemstic violence how they twist stuff ok or lower your self esteem so as the same if fashion is fun or attractive it too be used by an abuser , they twist things to suit why they abuse so to have a reason make you feel bad or such any way you dress or look it doesnt matter this is a fact of life anyone been abuse knows, i think too i seen a movie on this fact where a women drunk wen to a club i even thouht oh my god she dancng provokative ask for it but she was drunk thisisnt beauty fashion thing but think about that at first i even thought see she did this to self then as story unfolded later i saw the light, she didnt quit her lawyer didnt quit an later they all got jail the men raped her
but it took her standing up for self not back down an not give in to the lies why it happen there is no reason none abuse happen, no means no
same principle as why we leave our houses idea and go to shelters are you kidding me why cant we make law make men or whoever abuses leav why we give up fun give up pretty fashion and nature an houses dont ever run stand thats what i feel now
an no they wont stop or quit but maybe you dont then they walk away eventually see you type stand for something and if it take a lifetime change world then you go ahead see if you can i bet you be one to do it since you care so much never seen story someone care that much did research an ideas .

Jul 05, 2011
CELEBRATE YOU: WHO ME:? YES YOU:
by: Anonymous

Reading your honest open hearted, open minded appraisals fo the changes taht have taken place in the society around us since we were children and teens ourselves: I am a child/teenager of the forties/fifties: but for years have discussed and debated, observed the changes that have taken place in all you have written about: I am a single male: only child: but have been very much involved with families in my roll as care-worker, social worker, football coach, promoter of a healthy mind in a healthy body in an organization called Community Games had this as it's motto since it's foundation 1968: by a couple rearing young children in there estate which was crying out for healthy pursuits for children aand young people to be active and alive: The majority of children and young people I've known taking part in sport are so positive about themselves and their bodies that they don't see the dangers in the way they portray themselves or dress: It is us over protected adults as children that accept there are dangers for these same children especially in 2011 when these dress so at a much younger age: Thankfully the majority of parents still relate with their children and tell them they don't approve of such dress types etc: the drinking habits of their children etc: The value and respect the maturity of their children/teenagers Most young people I know are well behaved at their disco's and forms of their leisure time activities even dressed as you so well discribe: I hope I am realistic and I do learn from sharing with my friends who are parents and parents in general: Most are shocked when they observe what you observe: But I believe with the heightened awareness of what abuse is by society in general and the dangers to them children/teenagers are watching out for each other: Adults too are aware of they knowing so don't try to abuse etc; Teens don't abuse each other full stop: A percent of the more nieve or innocent ones sadly do which is still a concern for our caring society around us: I believe young people still have a very so sel-esteem image f themselves that Parents have to work hard at making them feel needed, loved and cherished for the unique child that they are: Yes, sizes of this that and the other does not help their self esteem: Again with the greater percent who do not take part in Sport at school/college or in healthy activeities: There are so many forms of dance which certainly effects a healthy mind in a healthy body: Young people are great, are in control, value and respect each other more than you the writer or I imagine or want to believe about them: I still believe they could be more modest in their dress code: So do all their parents: I would be more concerend about their social life especially needing a drink/drug to help them have a good night: ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF: STAY SAFE BE SAFE:

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