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Jan 14, 2011
Luci:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

None of what happened was your fault. None of it. No matter what others tell you, it will never be your fault. Fault lies on the shoulders of the person who abused you. And he knew it was wrong, otherwise he wouldn't have tried to make you keep it secret. Please tell an adult you trust, someone who can help you, someone who can help make some resources available to you. You didn't deserve to be sexually abused, Luci. Now that you have, you most definitely deserve help for the effects that being abused has had, and will continue to have on you. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jan 18, 2011
Always believe in yourself: You'll be the winner over your abusers
by: maurice

That's for sure Luci: Great you searched for and found Darlene's website: You'll be fine, you'll be a winner over that Naughty, bold, best friend as you refer to him in the telling of your story: He was not a friend: He was an abuser of you: Taking advantage of your beautiful innocence at 8 years of age and his friend was his collaborator in his abuse of you: They both did you and injustice: They both need help: they both need to be told by people in Authority you abused Luci and 8 years: Darlene wants and knows what is your best way forward now: read her comment carefully: You are a highly intelligent adolescent young thinking adult you'll fully understand her comment: I pray and hope you have a friend or two your own age and sex from school: With them begin to live your life to the full: Don't be afraid to talk or tell someone what this 14 year old with his friend did and knew what they were doing to you in that basement: I am never to blame: It was not my fault: He used and abused me, prying me with alcohol, dazing me somewhat and then spin the bottle so it stopped at me so he could undress me for his own gratification and control of me: I was only 8 years of age: He was 14: Luci he was totally wrong it what he did: So please never blame yourself or feel it was your fault ever: Surround yourself with true friends: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: At 16 years of age you can start making a good life for yourself: So take part in team sports and sporting and cultural activities with your own age and sex: He was no friend: Okay Luci live well Laugh alot love much:

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