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May 18, 2012
Will:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

It's been a while since you sent me this submission. It generally takes quite a long time for me to post stories because of volume. I post them in the order they're received. I don't even get a chance to look at them until the day I post them. But regardless of the time it took to appear live here, it was out in the Universe the moment you began writing it, working it's way through all of us. Recognize that days like this do come up, where one can be overwhelmed with emotion. We are living during an emotional time. Many are suffering with memories, in many cases, memories that were thought to be taken care of. This is very confusing for a lot of people. What's important is not to beat your Self up about it. Allow your Self to feel these emotions fully. Don't try to bury them. Remember the old adage: "This too shall pass." Just take really good care of your Self during these times, during all times actually, but give your Self some special attention when you're vulnerable, however that looks for you: a long bubble bath, a long walk, being close to nature. Picture your Self a tree, bending and swaying to the wind, even the gale force winds. Tell your Self how wonderful you are (because you are wonderful), tell your Self how loving and compassionate you are (because you are), tell your Self all the things that little girl in you needed to hear. Give her all the things she never got and needed. Remember that you are not alone, Will. We are all connected. And even though it's taken almost 3 weeks to put this live on my site, you getting this today is important, because you're getting it today. I send you love, light and healing energy, Will. Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable moment with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

May 18, 2012
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by: Anonymous

From Darlene - Webmaster: Will, and my other visitors to this thread, I've deleted the comment from this particular commenter because her numerous, oftentimes multiple, posts are inappropriate, and she refuses to stop posting here on this site. This is all I can do to keep you informed, as I cannot block her.

May 19, 2012
Thank you Darlene
by: Will

Today I read your comment to "just having a sad night". You are so right Darlene, your words were needed just at this time. Thank you very much. Thank you for having me on your blog site. God Bless.

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