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Apr 14, 2012
Will:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story and your all-important message with my visitors and me. There is one aspect of what you said that I'll address here: Your father didn't have sex "with" you, he sexually abused you. You were controlled and manipulated. You had no choice in the matter, and you certainly couldn't consent. Keep leaning on the support system you now have in place. I send you love, light and healing energy, Will.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Apr 14, 2012
some resources...
by: My Two Cents

I just realized after reading your story that I've never seen any resources for survivors of multiple offenders of both genders. Odd. I will look for those as well because they should exist.

With regards to female offenders (mom and grandmothers) you can google Dr. Christine Hatchford, mother-daughter sexual abuse, and there is a video resource which seems to be available online - "who will love me: 4 stories of mother-daughter sexual abuse."

I don't know if you'll find those resources helpful or not but they exist, just in case you were feeling that you were the only person in world abused by a mother.

I'm glad you've decided suicide is not the answer and that you have found ways to deal with things.

Be well.

My Two Cents.

Apr 14, 2012
The Horror
by: Anonymous

Will, what a bunch of sick perverts for parents, siblings and grandmothers to offend you 24/7...how dare they! Sexually abusing you and calling you a "wh**e" while doing so are just enough to throw those horrific perverts in prison for a long time. Oh, and laughing about it really shows me how uneducated and ignorant they really are, so please report them ASAP because perverts don't change their ways until they're made to stop.

May 17, 2012
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by: Anonymous

From Darlene - Webmaster: Anonymous, you've been commenting on my site for a long time now; and it's time I make an unprecedented step and ask you to please stop. You do not respect the rules I have in place here. You pass judgment on my visitors. You include links without regard to the fact that I do not permit them (for very good reason). Not to mention that much of what you write is so difficult to understand. You've often written 5 to 7 entries on one single visitor's thread, most of which either doesn't make sense, or is totally inappropriate in some way or another. Please, Anonymous, you must realize that none of your comments appear live on my site. They are never seen by anyone who visits here because I screen all comments first. I delete every one of your comments because I don't want my visitors to be put in a vulnerable place as a result of what you say. So again I ask that you please stop commenting on the stories, commentaries and articles on this site. I'd like to think that you really are trying to help people; and as a result of that wish that you'll respect what I'm trying to do here and refrain from commenting. It'll save you from writing thousands upon thousands of characters each time you attempt to post, time that is wasted when no one reads what you write, time that could be spent helping others in a way more suitable to your skills. I'm not passing judgment on you, Anonymous; I'm making a very clear observation, an observation that has led to me doing what I believe is best for my visitors. I do send you love, light and healing energy.

Will, my apologies for interceding in this thread, but given where we are with this Anonymous commenter, I felt it absolutely necessary.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir



May 17, 2012
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by: Anonymous

From Darlene - Webmaster: Comment deleted due to inappropriate commenting.

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