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Feb 29, 2012
Rita:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

The fact that you want to reach out to others is so commendable; and I have no problem with visitors connecting with one another, providing they so so within the comments on the threads within this website. This is important for all my visitors to understand: for the sake of online safety, no personal information such as email addresses, website URLs, phone numbers, etc will be permitted. I will also pass along that the way the module for these stories and comments works does not lend itself well to social networking. I say this because I am concerned that if visitors don't respond it could have a negative impact on you. That is not what I want for you. As always, I send you love, light and healing energy, Rita. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Mar 12, 2012
apology
by: Rita M

Dear Darlene,
I should have advised that I didn't want their
personal info of their address or phone number.
I am not interested in that at all.I just want
to see if they are feeling any better and if they
wanted to talk to me on this site that I want to encourage them.My apologize for a misleading
messege.
Rita M

From Darlene - Webmaster: Thank you for clearing up your message, Rita. I just wanted to make sure that everyone who read the comment understood the limitations placed on all who comment on my site, and the reasons for the strict policy that I've adopted since I opened this site to people's stories. I do know that you really want to help people...you've proven that many times in the comments you've left for visitors who have shared their own stories here. You have so much to offer; and I want you to know how much I appreciate all that you do here.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir


Mar 12, 2012
In respect
by: Rita M

Dear Darlene
Thankyou for your response back to me.I want so much to help others in a very healthy way.Setting guidlines is vitally important and understood.
I hope I have reached out properly to everyone that has recieved my response.Abuse is difficult to deal with alone.It always helps when someone can reach out to one else.It is a pleasure.
Rita M

May 09, 2012
Tech problem?
by: Rita M

Dear Darlene,
I am wandering if there is a technical problem here.There have been sent approx. close to a dozen of the same copies of my stories within the last 24 hours and is nearly overloading the email page.I don't mean any disreapect here but could this problem be possibly fixed as soon as possible.?I am also requesting please just to send to the hotmail address.Could you please help me with this?Thankyou
Rita M

From Darlene - Webmaster: Rita, I'm not aware of any tech problems. Without explicit details of what you're referring to, there's no way for me to make a report. I have no access to your email address or anything related to the automatic notifications. These are completely blind to me. You would have been notified of each comment made on any thread you requested notification on. I do have a problem commenter, a person who continues to leave dozens of comments of various threads, sometimes 6 or more on one thread alone, but there's nothing I can do to stop her from commenting. I can only delete all her posts, which I do. If you no longer want to receive notifications, you have the option of unsubscribing using the link toward the bottom of any of the notifications you currently receive in your inbox.

May 10, 2012
It`s not a personal thing
by: Rita M

DeaR Darlene,
It`s not anyone in particular all.It`s seems like
the stories I have typed keep coming with the same
comments.It`s just a repeat many times is all it is.I find that it is a privilege to respond to the
people online because I relate to the loneliness
and no one around that was willing to help or listen.I enjoy enouraging others.God Bless them all.
Rita M

From Darlene - Webmaster: That's my point, Rita. You'll only see the same comments because I do not permit the inappropriate woman's comments to go live. It is one person in particular that is generating all these notifications. Just this morning, she has already posted 5 comments on one person's thread, and she may not yet be done, all of which I did not permit to go live on the site. Yesterday alone, she posted more than a dozen, 7 of which were on one thread alone. Please, Rita, there isn't anything I can do about this.








May 10, 2012
I understand
by: Rita M

Dear Darlene,
Thankyou for taking the time to really explain this to me.I am so sorry that someone is not
respecting one of the most helpful sites on line.
This must be taking up alot of your time.You have
a great day Darlene.
Rita

From Darlene - Webmaster: Thank YOU, Rita, for your understanding, for your patience, and for all you do here on this site. I'm blessed to have people like you who not only visit this site, but contribute to it's success.

May 11, 2012
My pleasure
by: Rita M

Dear Darlene,
I hope the women isn't threatening to the site.
You or the other people on this site don't deserve this abuse.It must be alot of work to
keep up to prevneting the comments from passing
to everyone.Thanks for your protection upon everyone on this site.I am wandering if you can block her.It is my pleasure to write to as many people as possible.Thankyou for the privilege.
Rita M

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