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Dec 21, 2010
Zachary:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Most definitely tell what your pedophile of an uncle did to you. He is very likely still molesting other boys. He may well have stopped molesting you at the age you were because he has a preference for little boys. Disgusting as it sounds, you may have aged out for his tastes. But if you don't tell, he will never be made to stop. Please consider contacting Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting. Visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Dec 22, 2010
Be Brave: Be strong. Tell on HIM:: Don't let him hurt another child
by: maurice

Zachary: good on you: you found a safe place to tell your story of abuse: Your uncle was a paedophile: Darlene has assured you of that: NOW at 18 years of age your life is just beginning: as we approach the end of a year now is a good time for you to let go of all the effects of your uncle's abuse: Tell yourself, I am not to blame: He ruined my growth naturally as things happened and I did things that were (are) not normal: Nievely without knowing I did these things because I did not have anyone in my life to love and cherish me enough to tell me the truth about my sexuality: You have a greater knowledge and understanding you were not in full knowledge and you knew no better: Always believe in yourself: You are effected badly in your mind by what that paedophille did to you: Tell or inform the authorities on him: I am certain Zachary you don't want other 4 year old boys to end up all confused like you about their sexuality and natural normal growing up: 2011 is just weeks away A great time to make new-beginnings to live your life to the full: I hope you are still in eduacation: If not then get back into it: Start having a healthy mind in a healthy body: This will mean changeing your daily, weekly lifestyle's Because I want you to start taking part with others your own age and with your friends in team sports and sporting and cultural activities: Zachary I believe you want to live a good life: Let go of your past: and the horrible effects of the abuse you suffered: I can assure you, you will have genuine, true, and natural friends for life: Boy/girl relationship will be natrural and normal: Having respect for yourself and the other and your body: There is more to building a relationship than what is between one's legs: Always believe in yourself: Darlene site is your new beginning to live your life to the full: Counselling as she suggests will do you a power of good and put all that you wrote about in perspective: Happy new year: And a happier new life

Jan 05, 2011
your stronger then you think you are
by: Hannah

i have kno idea what you had to go thro i dont kno how it feels but honestly i believe you can overcome this but you have to be ready to sayy that you wont let this run your life anymore your strong enough to say enough is enough that your gonna take your life back. But in order for that to happen you have the power to let what your uncle did to you not happen to other boys you have to put your foot down and confront him make sure that this dosent happen again and i kno its better said then done but i believe in you =) your only 18 its okay to be confused as far as weather you like guys or girls or both it takes some people longer than others to kno what they are and if you do end up liking one or the other or both you'll always have support.

Jan 06, 2011
your stronger than you think you are
by: maurice

Hannah: that sure is an empowering comment to each and everyone on this site maybe eevn to Darlene: at times: oh yes Zachary you are loved by comments like this as I am too: Hannah is too all we need do is ALWAYS BELIEVE IN ONE SEL OURSELVES: We need to love and cherish the me in each of us: that great guy who is just getting to know the real and beautiful self after letting go and telling what the effects of abuse did to us or has still on us: Darlene knew what she wa doing by giving each of us a platform to bounce off into reality: so at the beginning of a NEW YEAR Hannah comment comes at a great time to each of us; Thank You:

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