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Jan 11, 2012
Xavier:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You were neglected, then punished when others brought that fact to your parents' attention by bringing you home. Your parents were neglectful, pure and simple. And from what you've written, you were physically abused as well. The neglect left you rejected and isolated, which is emotional abuse. Love is not beatings, Xavier. You were brainwashed to believe that's what love is because that's the only time you got attention. And negative attention is better than no attention at all. If you believe anything else, then you end up with no love at all. But that's not true. Love is within. It comes from our own hearts. When we can't rely on others, we can always rely on our Selves. Drop into your own heart and recognize that not only are you loveable, you ARE love. Please consider some form of counselling or therapy to help you deal with the repercussions of what you lived in your childhood. I send you love, light and positive energy, Xavier. You are not "forgotten" here. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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Jan 12, 2012
The Horror
by: Anonymous

Xavier, I hope that you're out of that house now. That's not love; that's just all about power and control. Your parents are twisted in their own ways of thinking and I hope that you tell someone you really trust and keep telling until he/she will finally listen to you and help you.

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