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Jan 03, 2012
Wendy:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your mother has a great deal to answer for. You may have a case for her as an enabler of sexual abuse, especially if the pedophile is found guilty, but I'm not a lawyer. Just know that you were so courageous to speak up. Never blame your Self for not speaking out earlier. Fear kept you with the secret. Fear is the number one reason that victims do not disclose sexual child abuse, fear of not being believed, and fear of what it will do to the family. Keep looking out for the well-being of your sisters, your own children and your Self. And reach out for any and all resources that are available to you. I strongly suggest you seek out some form of counselling or therapy in order to help you deal with the repercussions of the sexual abuse at the hands of someone that was there to protect you and keep you safe from harm, and in order to help you deal with the betrayal and abandonment from your misinformed and deluded mother. You didn't deserve to be abused, betrayed or abandoned, Wendy. You certainly deserve help for the fact that you were. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jan 04, 2012
The Horror
by: Anonymous

Wendy, I can't believe that your mom would abandon you to the so-called care of that sick pervert of a stepdad and allow him to offend you and even your sisters 24/7...how dare she! Shame on her for running away from you instead of protecting you from that beast! I am disgusted by her reactions to you guys being offended; children should always come first. A mother who chooses such a sick pedophile over her own precious daughters is the mother who doesn't deserve to have said daughters in her life. Oh, and it's way beyond cruel and sadistic for her to make you guys submissive to him, knowing full well what he did to you guys. Oh, and as for calling you and threatening you with death for reporting that pervert...appalling because doing so, as well as enabling the abuse, is just enough to throw that useless excuse of a woman to prison for a long time. I really hope that you and your sisters are out of that house now. You are not to blame for their disgusting behavior; they are to blame because they chose to abuse and offend you. You were the child; they were the adults. They had all the power and only misused that power over you. I'm glad that you reported that pervert to the cops; I just hope that you report your uncaring enabler for a mother as well.

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