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Jan 01, 2012
Wendy:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You've earned the anger and hostility you're feeling, of that I have no doubt. What I will also say is that if you continue to hang onto that anger and hostility, it will torment and consume you in much the same way your brothers were tormented and consumed. When hurt turns to hate, turn pain into power. I urge you to seek out some form of counselling or therapy in order to help you deal with what you were forced to endure at the hands of not one, but two extraordinarily sick and twisted parents. When you deal with the horrendous abuse and allow your Self to fully feel what you've been trying to bury for so long, the anger and hostility will let you go. You didn't deserve to be abused by either of them. You certainly deserve help for the fact that you were. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jan 02, 2012
The Horror
by: Anonymous

Wendy, first of all, my condolences to your brothers because I know what it's like to lose the very people you care about. Second of all, I can't believe that your mom would abandon you and your brothers to the so-called care of that sick, sadistic monster of a father and allow him to beat and berate you guys 24/7...how dare she! That's not discipline; that's just torture. Shame on her for running away from you all the time instead of protecting you from that beast! A mother who chooses such a sick beast over her own precious children is the mother who doesn't deserve to have said children in her life. Oh, and eating pizza without sharing and forcing you guys to watch is just as cruel and appalling because they are helpless bullies who happened to use your amazing ability of cache for their sadistic gratification instead of just simply helping themselves. The path that they chose is inexcusable because they themselves had no respect for you and your rights as human beings and they've proven that just by those nasty injuries that they inflicted upon you guys. They had the mindset that you guys were to be submissive and obedient at all costs. They are really acting like little 3-year-olds trapped in grown-up bodies because not only are they stuck in their own childhood, but they are trapped in their terrible twos as well. Your lives shouldn't have been used as pawns for their immature, sick, sadistic, ignorant misery. Children are gifts to be treasured, not abused. You are not to blame for their sadistic, ignorant behavior; they are to blame because they chose to abuse you. You and your brothers were the children; they were the adults; they had all the power and only misused it over you, so I hope that you're in a safe place now, that you try counselling and that you look into reporting them.

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