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Mar 21, 2011
Warren:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm so proud of you for having the courage to speak up and report what this uncle did to you. In all likelihood, you've now stopped him from sexually abusing another little boy. If there is one thing I will share with you here it's that you can't tie your healing and recovery into the outcome of a trial. Know going forward that "justice" may not come in the form that you hope it will. If the legal system does not find him guilty, that doesn't mean that they're saying what happened to you didn't happen to you. All it means is that there isn't enough evidence to convict. What's important is that you not allow yourself to be re-victimized by such an outcome. You know the truth. You not only lived it, you lived through the repercussions. Lean on the support system you have in place, including your counselor. This will be a very trying time. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Mar 22, 2011
Always believe in yourself: You'll be the winner over your abusers
by: maurice

Warren: your free: you ran from your pain, your abusive uncle. He ruined your innocent years: Know you are a strong man now: A winner: Great you searched for and found Darlene's site: You are a highly intelligent man: You'll understand her empowering words to you: It was never your fault what that beast, bad man did to you: You know best: You are so brave, after all you pput yourself through to try and understand why he did all he did to you from 13 to 16 and even at 16: You knew he was using you and abusing you, you were strong not to allow him do that to you: Good on you Warren: Now is the time to rebuild your life, new beginnings, once Warren you follow Darlene's loving heart words of encouragement of the way forward for you: You'll be fine: You'll be a winner; Now at 26 you have a good ten years to have ahealthy mind in a healthy body: Oh yes Warren Always Believe in yourself: change your life styles: get out there and take part in sporting and cultural activities: Join a team; You are gifted: you are tallented: I know you have leadership qualities to share with others: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: let this be your motto WHY??? because I AM WORTH IT: Go for it Warren: there is a good life to be lived even after your abuse: He did you and your sibling an injustice: Was wrong; by telling on him you have saved other children/teen boys or girls from his sickness and abuse:

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