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Feb 15, 2012
Wanda:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your parents unwittingly put you at risk. But your mother put you at the greatest risk by her own hand. When children are afraid of their parents and can't trust them with their own safety, it's one more reason not to trust them with the truth about sexual abuse. The fact that your mother was so insensitive to your needs and beat you instead of trying to determine why you were so afraid in the dark is a testament to her own mental issues: she was all about control. And you paid the ultimate price for that control. The fact that your father did nothing to stop your mother or to keep you safe from harm from that sick pedophile put you at even greater risk for more abuse. Your parents have much to answer for. Just know that you can get past this, Wanda. The abuse you endured as a child is over with, except in your memory and emotions. Please seek out some form of counselling or therapy in order to help you deal with the repercussions of not only sexual abuse at the hands of a pedophile, but of other forms of child abuse at the hands of your parents. You didn't deserve to be abused. You certainly deserve help for the fact that you were. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. I send you love, light and healing energy.

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Feb 16, 2012
The Horror
by: Anonymous

Wanda, I can't believe that your dad would abandon you to the so-called care of that sick, sadistic monster of a mother and allow her to beat and berate you 24/7...how dare he! That isn't discipline; that's just torture. She is a really sadistic brute; the idea that she beat you for fearing the dark must show me that she knew that you were afraid of the dark yet she never cared enough to even let you have a nightlight. If she didn't want you turning off the lights before bedtime, then she should've had the courage to find out why you were afraid of the dark and then talk to you about it instead of sadistically abusing you. The path that she, along with your dad and even that pervert of an assistant, chose is inexcusable. Beating you for no reason at all and emotional abuse are just enough to throw that horrific, poor excuse of a woman to prison for a long time. Children are gifts to treasure, not to abuse. Maybe she must've been frustrated with her own life and chose to take it out on you...and, sadly, she never got any help that she needed because no one is ever helping her. As for that pervert, he should go to prison as well because he could be offending other young girls as well, since perverts don't change their ways until they're made to stop, so TELL, TELL, TELL!!! You are not to blame for your mother's sadistic behavior nor that pervert's disgusting behavior; they are to blame because they chose to abuse and offend you. You were the child; they were the adults; they had all the power and only misused it over you. I really hope that you're in a safe place now, that you try counselling and that you look into reporting those sick beasts.

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