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Mar 19, 2012
Victoria:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

The police aren't the ones in a position to help you, especially to get you out of the abusive environment you're in. Please reach out to people who can help you: a counsellor at school, a trusted teacher. I urge you to contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about the abuse you are still dealing with. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. Visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

You don't deserve to be mistreated, and neither does your brother. For some reason, your parents have decided to single you and your brother out for abuse. That doesn't make you or him flawed or deserving of mistreatment. And your sister is mimicking what she's watched your parents do to you, and your parents have chosen not to stop her. Whether you can see it or not, she too is being abused in an insidious way: she's being groomed to be an abuser herself. As for what you've done to lash out, I applaud that you're being honest. You can't change what you don't acknowledge. And now that you have acknowledged what you've done, put an end to it. Don't become what your parents are (even on a lesser scale), what you hate so much. It feels terrible to be abused; you know that better than anyone. If at all possible, please seek out some form of counselling, Victoria. You deserve that kind of help. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. I send you love, light and healing energy.

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Mar 20, 2012
The Horror
by: Anonymous

Victoria, your so-called parents are deeply troubled and sadistic...and they can't be trusted at all. I really hope that you and your brother are out of that house now...and thank goodness you guys survived! Anyway, if you're not out of that house, you can and will be in further danger (and so can your brother) and they can and will continue to brutalize you. They have the mindset that you are to be submissive and obedient at every single cost, so please get out of that house...GET OUT NOW!!! And when you're at it, don't forget to take your brother with you! Next time they lay a hand on you guys ever again, please consider reporting them ASAP. Children are gifts to treasure, not to abuse. Oh, and you're not disciplined; you're really tormented. As for your sister, she can't be trusted either because they brainwashed her in being a bully. They're really acting like little 1-year-olds trapped in grown-up bodies because they're stuck in their own childhood. As for that pervert who raped you, she should be in jail as well because perverts don't change their ways until they're made to stop. You're not to blame for their sadistic, ignorant behavior; they are to blame because they chose to abuse you and your brother; they are helpless bullies who chose to use your youths and vulnerabilities (and your brother's, too) for their sadistic gratification instead of helping themselves. They had all the power and only misused it over you, so TELL, TELL, TELL!!!

Feb 05, 2013
Seriously, get out of that house!
by: Anonymous

Please try to get out of that house as soon as you can, Victoria (so should your older brother); you guys have suffered enough. Your parents are mentally ill, violent; they probably won't change until someone makes them stop; that's a shame that your older sister grew up to be just like them. As soon as you and your brother get away from them, your healing (alongside his healing) can start in earnest.

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