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Dec 18, 2009
Victoria:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

None of what happened was your fault, and I hope you're getting some kind of counselling for what happened to you. I'm VERY concerned that you still spend time with your extremely violent father. Contact Kids Helpline in Canada at 1-800-668-6868 when you need someone to talk to. They are staffed with professionally trained counsellors who will help you with your options. You can remain anonymous, if you so choose. Although they are not a reporting agency, if you decide to give them identifying information that includes your name and an address or phone number, they are legally obligated to report any disclosures of abuse. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/en/home.asp

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Dec 18, 2009
So many crimes committed...
by: Anonymous

Victoria, I am sorry that happened to you. I really hope that you try counselling and that your so-called dad gets incarcerated for all those terrible crimes that he committed against you. However, I am glad that your mom is with you now because she is so sweet for doing that!

Dec 18, 2009
Victoria dont go back
by: Anonymous 2

Please don't go back to see that so called father of yours. There is no way of telling what he could do to you the next time. That guy is insane and he will not change no matter how much you might wish he would. Tell your mom you will not go back there and tell anyone that can help to keep that deadly person away from you. None of what happened is your fault. It is his fault and you can not fix him. You need to think about yourself now and try to get help that will help you understand that you are a wonderful girl who deserves respect, kindness and love. Victoria I had a dad just like that too. When my brothers and I grew big and strong enough we were able to get him to move out and away from us.The last time my dad went after my brother with a big knife. My brother held up a tall stool and backed my dad up as if my brother was a lion tammer. He backed my dad up and I opened the basement door and then we pushed him down it and locked the door. I dont remember how he got out but he left and we were all safe after that and we all stayed away from him. None of us even went to his funeral. I had all my brothers and sisters to help keep him away but you don't have anyone with you when you were with that dad. NEVER never let yourself get backed into a corner... Do everything you can to stay away from that guy.
Please stay safe.



Dec 19, 2009
It was not my fault, I am not to blame, I did not desreve what he did to me.
by: maurice

Positive thinking Victoria 1. Darlene has given you her heartfelt feelings in her comment. Also loving encouraging words for you to think about. just don't think about them act on them and get yourself help from a counsellor. Also begin to trust one/two people who will walk with you. listen to you, love you, respect you for your trust in them especially after that beast of a Father abuse of you. Vitoria 1. you are one very special child of God and the Universe in your own right. Respect your own dignity, respect yoursefl and your own body, be in control don't let another use it abuse ever again. There is help and support around you. use it and stay safe. I can, I will, I must just for me because I'M WORTH IT.

Dec 22, 2009
you are so strong
by: nikki

you need to get some counselling right away i don't think you have came to terms with it yet and you really need some help with that i don't understand how your father could do that to you my mother abused me when i was young but my dad never layed a hand on me he didn't even yell at me your surrposed to be your daddy's baby girl and it must hurt knowing that he hurt you like that i feel for you sweet and i hope you feel better soon losta love nikki cheer up hunny Xoxoxoxoxo

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