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Jan 07, 2011
Vanessa:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I commend you for your courage to tell. I know how difficult that can be. And I'm delighted that you are now away from that abusive environment and that you are starting a new life with your foster family. You deserve to be treated with dignity and respect, and with love. Always remember that. Thank you for sharing your story and your all-important message with my visitors and me.

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Jan 08, 2011
So glad you told
by: Anonymous

Vanessa, what your so-called parents did to you was pathetic and ungrateful because they should've known better and loved and cherished you. However, i am glad that you are in a safe place now; I just hope that those sickos for parents would someday be incarcerated for all those terrible crimes that they committed against you. Oh, and I'm also glad that your foster family is with you now because they are so sweet for doing that!

Jan 10, 2011
The inner strength of a child: Especially the ones that have shared their abuse
by: maurice

Vanessa: I believe in that inner strength that you had and these words of yours will give hope and courage to another child/adolecent to tell:
Empowering words from you Vanessa: I quaote I would encourage anyone who is being abused in any way or by anyone to just tell someone: this is most important even if you're being threatened not to tell: Like I was: Dig as deep as you can just find your inner courage: Vanessa good on you mate: Darlene's site will begin a new life for you once you follow her encourageing words in her personal comment just for you from her heart: Yes, It is great you are in a safe loving environment NOW; stay safe: Be safe: Live well: laugh alot: Love much: beginning and ending with your wonderful and beautiful self: Be Brave: be strong now to get on with living your life to the full: Stay in education: have no excuses or doubts there stay in education: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Vanessa those brutes with animal tendincies deserve to be put far away from children and society to make them pay for the beatings and humiliation of you at suche a tender age: They battered and bruised your body now you be gentle and kind to it: Massage, hug, cuddle love into with scented oils creams: start taking part with your own age group and gender in team sports and activities: You'll make real friends for life: Genuine ones who will make you feel good and proud about yourself and your giftedness: Have one or two close friend your own age and gender whom you can share you innermost secrets and girlie/womany feelings with: between ye you'll keep things in perspective: Boy/girl relationships are normal/natural but the'll be time when it will not work out but your frinds will help you to get on with life and make sense of it: Vanessa: read darlene's comment, heed her words regarding finding some form of counselling: You'll be fine: you'll be a victim of abuse into victory if you get that counselling

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