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Dec 08, 2009
Tyler:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You're an exceptional friend. Thank you for sharing Carter's story with my visitors and me.

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Dec 08, 2009
this one is far carter...
by: christina

sweetheart, whoever you are, wherever you are, you didnt deserve that. it was NOT your fault and one day hopefully, you will see that and bring yourself to realize that they are sick people...BUT please know that this is a WEBSITE for the abused, FOR YOU (DONT FOCUSE ON 'THEM' ANYMORE), ITS UR TURN!!!! so if you are a victim, honey please open up, nothing feels btr then when you LET IT ALL OUT, and most of all, you have wonderful support and a loving friend by urside, God bless him and his family for saving you, NOW YOU JUST HAVE TO SAVE YOU FROM YOURSELF... i know...... i have been and am still on that road, recovery and love is this hardest thing to let in even tho that is what yur heart needs the most....you will make it, you have to believe in yourself, you will have horrible times that you dont know how to go on, what to do, and where to go....your mind will race, your body wont sleep, and your heart wont heal, IT WILL GET BTR AND WE HERE ON THIS SITE !!!LOVE YOU!!****BE STRONG!!!*** GOD BLESS!!! HAVE A MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

Dec 08, 2009
for tyler!!
by: christina

GOD BLESS YOU!!!! YOU are a wonderful friend for coming into his life, for saving him, for being there even wen he pushed away, and for showing him love, you are the key to him become well adn learning the true meaning of love and happiness, and yes, attimes you may seem like you dont know what else to say to help him, but YOU ARE THERE, and he knows, that being there for him is more then ANYONE has ever done, thank you for shring his story, i wish i would have had a wonderful loving friend as you, and he is lucky, no- he's blessedto have you. nevr give up and love him through out it all, he is gonna need alot of love, and it seems that you have come thru for him, just note that especially sexual abuse, is the hardest thing to comprahend even wen you are the victim, and the only thing you really know to do, is blam it on yourself...over time, with your help, he will see that it isnt his fault, NONE OF IT, but rememebr he will have bads days along with the good days.....i go wks without nightmares and then when they come, i have like 2 in one nigt, and ever time it is so real, terrifying and life draining just as i am living it again.....GOD BLESS YOU AND YOU FAMILY FOR YOUR LOVE, SUPPORT, CARE, FOR BEING AMAZING, AND GOD BLESS YOU FOR BEING THERE FOR CARTER......GOD BLESS carter, for having you!!!! MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL*****

Dec 09, 2009
what a friend you have in me. a true friend, the very best
by: maurice

Oh Tyler, you sure are one very special child of God, loved and treasured by your Mam and Dad and your family. I am certain Carter values your friendship no end. He can rightly say, what a friend I have in you Tyler. The very best kind of friend, the one he trust with his life and story. Oh Tyler you are the gold nugget he needs right now in his young life. You will be his stepping stone to being a true believer in himself. Carter too is one very brave and wonderful teenager/young man. The power of love, the power of friendship will slowly get him believeing in himself. You will get him all the relevant help (professional help) he will need to make a sense of all that brute of a step father did to him. An animal not a human being. Oh Carter sure has one very special friend in you. stand by him and I know you will untill he can stand on his own two feet. Tyler thank you for telling Carter's story for him. I believe in true friendship being the one thing we all need as human beings. A true friend. Carter has found one in you. Christina sure has given both of you her Love and friendship too. God bless you both.

Dec 10, 2009
You're the kind of friend that every victim kid wished they had.
by: Dan1

I wish I had a friend like you. I was too a victime of sexual abuse, but I didn't have no one to go to and tell when I was a kid. I didn't trust adults or any kind of authority after what happend to me. My incident got me to believe that all adults were rapists. I couldn't even tell my family members. You were their for your friend and you even witnessed it. You came to his rescue and got him away from his stepdad. I'm sure it meant a lot to him that u were always their and that you took him in and he'll tell you that soon if he hasn't yet. Basically I'm sayInG thTa you are a hero and again I wish I had a friend like you that I could of gone to.

Dec 03, 2010
what in the world?!
by: My Two Cents

Jeez, Carter....this is so unspeakable. Your stepfather was a sadistic monster who never should have been allowed near you.

I am so incredibly happy that your friend and his parents helped you, this is far beyond friendship.

I really feel like a broken record, repeating the same comment all the time - where in the world were your teachers and the other adults in your life who are required by LAW and their professional associations to report SUSPICIONS of child abuse to child welfare???

I simply cannot believe that with the violence you experienced (coughing up blood???)and the visible evidence when you took off your shirt in school, they didn't suspect????? What exactly do these teachers do when they attend a professional development day on child abuse if not learn what to watch for?

Gah! This just makes my blood boil.

I really hope you are doing well and continue to heal from this monster's cruelty.

Be well.

My Two Cents.

Dec 06, 2010
Hearts speak to each other Thank You:
by: maurice

Tyler: you touched the human heart of Darlene and all who have left comments: You are amazing: Hi, you be strong, stay safe: Carter is blessed to have someone like you to call FRIEND so then are you to have a FRIEND in Carter: friendship is two way thing: open hearted/openminded in total trust knowing we'll always do the right thing to stay and keep friends: Tyler your the greatest, you sure appreciate good parent's loving and cherishing parent's also to have parent's who know what is best for Carter in getting him some form of counselling: He'll be fine: you and him begin today having Healthy minds in your healthy bodies: Take part in team sports; become active and alive with your friends/class-mates, fellow student taking part in team sports: You both are gifted/tallented with leadership qualities: You'll both make real and natural friends for life: off your bottoms now together doing healthy pursuits that will benefit both of you long term

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