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Nov 02, 2009
Report this man, not just for your sake, but for the sake of other victims...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You didn't say where you are from, but I would strongly recommend that you report this man, even though what happened to you happened some years ago. There is EVERY chance this man is continuing to molest young boys, and he may well have gone further than he did with you. It could be very helpful if you disclosed for this reason. And you have every right to feel hatred for that man after what he did to you. But that hatred will eat you up if you don't find someone to help you deal with it. You're worthy of that kind of help. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Nov 09, 2009
Hi wonderful and special you
by: maurice

Maybe that is not the way you see yourself right now but with Darlene's words of care, love, concern, and empowering I am certain you are brave enough, strong enough and highly articulated to tell someone who will begin the process of healing. Wild Beasts of the human species are still lurking out there and this man is one of them to prey on the innocent. You can safeguard many by telling the authorities either in the Church or more importantly the civic authorities. I am certain you know and trust a few people close to you even your best friend whom I am certain you told. He/She will be strong with you to tell on this Man. No delaying, while you do other innocent boys may suffer at his hands. Darlene's comment wonderful YOU is your stepping stone to being free, while making sense of what she has written to you. Stop hurting yourself, please, Begin to love the real you, beautiful, special, unique, now add all the positive things that you know is the real you. Think Positive, Act Positive, Be positive and pardon my vulgarity PEE away the negative thpoughts about yourself, Let them go. Please. Hi not for Darlene or my sakes. but your own. I can, I will, I must. build on your own self worth, self esteem in the ways suggested by Darlene.

Nov 18, 2009
Hello from Dover, Delaware, U.S.A.
by: Anonymous

DO NOT EVER say that you're sorry! NEVER be sorry because that perverted bastard derserves to go to prison and be a valid reason to be hated upon. Don't be sorry because it was NEVER your fault that this man molested you........

Nov 29, 2009
Thank you for your words of encouragement
by: Dan1

Hi Darlene I wanted to thank you for your comment and for the time you took to read my story of what happend to me at my own church. I'm from northern California and I'm also the boy who had those sexual contacts with his little friend as a child. This incedent here happend afterwards and not only that, it added a lot more to my misery and guilt. After this incedent happend I looked at it as Karma for what I did as a child with my little friend, so at the end I kinda just accepted it. And felt really bad. I'm physically ok though. I don't do drugs or smoke to try and forget what happend. I work and go to a good school. But as soon as I get some peace and quit the memories come back and so does the guilt. I try so hard to not let it get to me. I'm sorry for not adding this in one of my stories. I guess that's just how horrible I felt before I wrote them. I want to report what happend at the church just as much as I want to talk to my friend about what we did as kids. My situation with my friend - I got it all carried out I'm just waiting until i see him again. But the church incedent is hard. just thinking about going over there and reporting it makes me shiver. I feel so pressured for some reason.

May 04, 2010
you are brave
by: liz

i have to say you are brave that man is nothing but a monster but bing a christ i say this a quote from my youth paster " cause god fogave me of my sins i should forgive my dad" well try to forgive its bettre to fogive then forget

will be praying for you

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