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Jun 27, 2010
Tegan:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

While I thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me, I also must say that you need to talk to someone about what happened to you; you're worth that kind of help.

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Jun 30, 2010
tegan, you need to tell someone, this is a good start
by: Eileen Howard fralick

What happened to you will continue to rule you, until you realize that it had nothing to do with you, you were taken advantage of by a sick mind, and you need to tell someone you trust. Trusting is hard for people like us. A doctor is bond to keep it confidential, and they are there to help you. I was abused by my father, and I was told I was a liar etc. etc. but he did this same thing to my eldest sister. It was very hard but we finally talked a little about it, just so I would know I was not out of my mind, she told me he had done it to her to. To bad we waited til I was 32 to have the talk. I wasted alot of precious time. It never goes away, but it becomes less and less important, after you realize, you will still be loved, if someone else knows. Go to someone you feel might understand. Confronting your father may make him do what my mother did, she said I was making it up, but when my sister helped me, she had to realize two girls would not make it up, or imagine it. Your brother might be able to help you, but he may not want to. but no matter what, get help from a proffessional as soon as you can. The sooner it is out, the sooner your healing can start. Good Luck and remember, you were no part of this, you were just a little child, who was used by a bad person, and for this I am so so sorry. She had no right.

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