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Nov 19, 2010
Tayla:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You WERE the victim and it WASN'T your fault. You bring up a very important point about the way parents can unwittingly set up their children for abuse by telling them they are to listen to adults. This is a lesson I hope you and other visitors will take with them. I do not believe children should be taught to always listen to adults. But this isn't the place to go into detail about the topic. I gather that your mother moved closed to your grandparents because they were her parents. Your grandfather molested you. He's very likely molested others. And though I can't say for sure, it's quite possible he molested your mother. And while telling your friends may have given you some relief, they are not in a position to really help you, Tayla. Tell your parents. It's the only way you can hope to get help for having lived through what that sex offender did to you. And always remember, you did nothing wrong; nothing at all. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Nov 24, 2010
What a brave girl/teenager YOU are: Always believe in yourself
by: maurice

Oh Tayla: you found a safe place in your cry to be helped: Please read Darlene's loving heartfelt comment to you: You are a clevera nd intelligent young adolecent and young thinking adult NOW: You were so brave to write and tell your story: Darlene sure know how brave you were: You will be fine: Just trust yourself and with the encouragement from your friends tell your Parents: They will understand: If that is too difficult for you tell a counsellor at your school or college: But do tell on HIM: Bad Bad uncaring: unloving Grand POP: He molested you: I with Darlene only hope he did not do the same to other innocent little girls and even your mom: He is not a good man: He abused you: he has put confusion into your head because the effects of what he did are hurting you: Yes: I hear understand Darlene when she said Adults should not tell children or teenagers to listen to their elders or older people: I know from my childhood how wrong my mother was and all the adults who said don't you did-resepct your elders; The same adults were abusers of their own and other children: Tayla be safe: stay safe: Your a a young thing adolecent now: You are more aware of how wrong your Pop was: Tell on him: You were not to BLAME; It was not your FAULT; Now off your bottom and get having a healthy mind in a healthy body: Oh yes, Ms Tayla get out there with your freinds, class mates, fellow students taking part in TEAM sports, sports and cultural activities: You'll make real friends for life: you'll grow up absolutely full of life and full of admiration for yourself and others: I am gifted: I am tallented: I am a leader in my own right: I would make a great TEAM captain: I love and resepct my own self and body and love me for who I am: Look in that miorror Tayla: Be gentle and kind to the lovely and beautiful me looking out at you: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: WHY??? Because I am WORTH it; now hug and cuddle that me that motto into your system: Live well: laugh alot: love Much always beginning with yourself Tayla

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