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Dec 21, 2009
Sue:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

No one who visits here can give you advice. Your counsellor has a duty, and quite possibly a legal obligation, depending on where you live, to contact Social Services if you disclose abuse. Please contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about what you are dealing with. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Dec 21, 2009
Your mother is out of control
by: Anonymous

Sue, I am sorry that you didn't have a good mother. I can relate; my so-called parents took away my cell phone from me several times when I was 16 going on 17, and even still to this day, everyone outside of my so-called family has always loved them. You are not to blame; in fact, your mother is to blame because she has problems and she needs help...but you need help, too, so the sooner you tell someone, the better. Darlene is right! Please tell someone you really trust until they would finally listen to you and help you!

Dec 22, 2009
sue
by: Anonymous

Dear Sue its never your fault when some one more powerful takes advantage of the situation like they do! and hopefully you have showed more people so they would believe you.Keep your head high and love your self never let any body break your spirit!!! you are a wonderful person

Dec 23, 2009
You have the courage to talk. Good on YOU
by: maurice

Sue, well done, reaching out and finding Darlene's site. You have found a good woman/professional with a heart of gold for all her visitors. She knows best, She journeyed through being abused, she has journeyed out of abuse by getting help at the time. Sue, trust your Counsellor at School, she will help you in time. Your mother is so unloving/uncaring of you not cherishing you as her very own flesh and blood. You are one of many whose parents are the leading lights of the community and with their friends. Yet so abusing of their children behind closed doors. Continue to talk, to be out and about being active and alive with your friends and peers at school. Join Sporting and Cultural groups in School. Having a healthy mind in a healthy body will help you no-end. When your Parents especially your Mother knows you are doing PE and in team sports at school knowing you will be showering etc with them she [might] cease harming your body. As you get older you also becaome stronger now that you know your mother is abusing you. Be Brave, stay strong, you'll succeed you'll be the winner and you'll be vitorious over being a victim of abuse. I will, I can, I must just for me. because I'm worth it. Think positive, Act positive, Be positive. Ok. have good and true friends to encourage you. Not just boy friends A friend who will listen to you love you, hug you and be there for you no matter what you share with them.

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