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Jul 29, 2010
Stella:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You were 9 years old, being sexually molested yourself. Understand that sexually intrusive children have themselves been violated somewhere along the line, just as you were. You are applying adult values to something you did when you were a little girl being abused, and you didn't understand what you were actually doing. My God, give yourself a break. When your mother punished you, she took away your voice for what was happening to you. Living your life in this prison with a life sentence is going to leave its mark on your precious son. Please seek out some form of counseling in order to help you deal with this and put it into perspective. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jan 17, 2011
forgiveness
by: Anonymous

eventhough i think is not your fault, you will always feel this way, until God tells you otherwise. I think you need the forgiveness of God, in order to forgive yourself and having the example of a loving and Forgiven God, you will find the staring to forgive your abuser too. God can give you the peace you need, he will also take the shame form you..
please go to counseling and get closer to God. remember that Jesus Christ loves you and he is willing to take this feelings away from you

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