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Feb 17, 2011
Shelly:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your mother has serious problems. But this isn't about her, it's about you and your children. I don't blame you one iota for deciding not to allow her to see your children. She can't be trusted, especially given the fact that she chose a molester over her precious child. And I do understand how difficult it can be when you can't afford to get the professional help that could help you to deal with the repercussions of what you endured, both at the hands of the sex offender and at the hands of your mother. Betrayal and abandonment from a mother are among the most difficult to deal with. Consider your local library as a resource for books that might be helpful. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Feb 17, 2011
I'm sorry
by: Anonymous

Shelly; what your so-called mom and her slimy 2nd husband did to you was disgusting because they are twisted in their ways of thinking. Your stepdad is a disgusting pig and he should be locked up for all those terrible, disgusting crimes that he committed against you. As for your "mom", I am just as disgusted by her reactions towards him raping you; I hate women who choose men over their own children because children should always come first. Shame on her for running away from you instead of protecting you from that sicko! You are not to blame; they are to blame. You were the child; they were the adults. They had all the power and they misused it over you and even took advantage of your vulnerabilities. I hope that you're in a safe place now, that you seek professional counselling and call the police on your sicko of a stepdad because molesters don't stop until they are made to stop.

Mar 04, 2011
Always believe in your self: Get help: You'll be fine
by: maurice

Shelly T: Your mother is a no no in your life: She's there but truly when she did not believe you she has her problems: She let your Father down: He could not trust her: Turning your brothers against you is sure vindictive and nasty: She with her equallly bad man, (beast) are better to be ignored by you: You must NOW get on with living your life to the full and live it for yourself and your children: They will give you hope, they will give you strength: You'll do what is best for you and them: That is a loving full time Task: Shelly T Darlene has given you loving re-affirming==re-assuring words from her woman's heart: Take heed of them, own them and take them into your heart: She sure put's one's story in perspective: She wants alwyays what is the best for you personally: You'll be fine: Live well: laugh alot: LOVE much: some form of counselling as suggested by Darlene would go a long way for you to let go of those two people who ruined your child hood giving you feelings and effects of their abuse of you: You deserve bettter so you take charge of your own life's destiny now let your beautiful children be your reason:

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