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Oct 03, 2010
Sara:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your sister was "groomed" by your mother; and as a result of that grooming, she was neglected because she's been taught that there are no consequences for harming another person: YOU. And you've bore the brunt of that with BOTH your mother and sister. As difficult as it is to see, you've BOTH been abused, but in very different ways. If you aren't already in some form of counseling, please consider seeking it out. You deserve that kind of help. Thank you for sharing more of your story with my visitors and me.

I thought I would also tell you that yesterday I inadvertently clicked on the "publish" button on this Part 2 story before I had a chance to read it, which is why you (and others) would have received a notification that it was live on my site, but were unable to find it when clicking on the link. I had to delete and re-post it here. My apologies for the error.

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Oct 04, 2010
Darlene is right
by: Anonymous

Sara, I agree with Darlene. Not only is your mother abusing you, but she is also actually abusing your sister, mostly by teaching her to be antisocial towards you and, if that continues, then your sister may end up being a child abuser and a criminal herself later in life, so the sooner you tell, the better.

Jan 20, 2012
You are not alone
by: Anonymous

I have very similar experience in my life. For my widowed mother, my sister was a princess and I was a servant/punching bag. She repeatedly told me that she gave me birth and I should be thankful for that, and she wanted me lump sum payment of the money she spent to raise me while I was the sole care taker of her (financially and physically.) Recently I expressed to my sister about our mother's abusive history, she denied entirely and blamed me for false accusation. I was extremely hurt and severed my tie with my sister.

Mar 29, 2012
really touching
by: Anonymous

This story is sad. My kids are telling me what a bad life they have when they do chores or don't get their way. After they read this story, they started talking about all the things that they are grateful for.

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