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Jan 14, 2012
To S:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm delighted that you are now happy in your life. You did state that you still have flashbacks and suffer from depression as a result of the terrible environment you grew up in. Your mother set you up for sexual abuse, and so did your customs. When children and girls and women are beaten for speaking up and and speaking out, when marriages are arranged without the ability of the woman or girl to say no, when the men of the community have the right to beat women and children, not only are they guilty of abuse themselves, they promote and enable sexual abuse. Please seek out some form of counselling or therapy in order to deal with the effects the various forms of abuse you endured has left you with. You deserved to be treated with dignity and respect and love. You didn't deserve to be mistreated. You now deserve help for the fact that you were so terribly mistreated. I send you love, light and positive energy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jan 22, 2012
S
by: Rita M

Hi S,
I can relate to you here in the way of abuse like
that.I know what it is to be molested and raped.
You seem like a very strong person and were alone
through the most part of it.Your mother was not
attentive toward you at all.No one heard your cries yet you pulled through all this through all the years alone.You must be so loving because you
had 4 children and it doesn't seem like you are under any stress when you mention them.They were
your treasure and you had genuine love for them.The saying is that you either beat them or join them.You beat them and created your own boundries and created a lovely life
for you and your children.Not everyone can do that.Infact most people can't do that.Another thing here is that you say it is not the money that keeps you happy.We need money but you are saying that your wealth is in your family based on love and respect.That is genuinely a strong
message and it makes sense.Most people have to
go for therapy for some time to do what you did to pull through.You desrve a lot of respect for
that.Take care.
Rita M

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