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Mar 24, 2010
Rebecca:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Mar 24, 2010
forever 21
by: Anonymous

you most likely wont like my comment but have you heard of tough love, if so then try to understand . opra, she had numerous abuses and remember the color purple watch that movie
i dont know if you are well what nationality
but it doenst matter does it. if a black women minority being abused can survive make a famous life then well so can you. my dad said one time when i felt i just couldnt do something he was in ww2 said if i can eat around dead people you can do this. i felt like wow you are right . i thought about this years each time i was chalenged in any way in life. and also codependancy sound s like you are, on your hero your partner, give yourself credit, not the partner. seriously. what you do is owning who you are everyone gets mad when i say this but isnt it true you own who you are then you can life and move on thats why it sound s to me you did great job moved on. and 21 well there are songs about being 21 , cloths about being 21 all kinds of neat things 21 i wish i could be 21 AGAIN
new life and well you will remember all the wonderful things coming in your future you wont be trapped in the past , thats another thing
time bubbles we call it some of my sons say
oh mom he is stuck in a time warp dont you waste your precious time , 21 is the greatest years of your life and look where you are right
that is who you are now , own that fact , you made it and move on , life the great years ahead of you and believe that s who you are
it is fact. if a black minority women can make it after abuses so can you, maybe you be famous someday, tell everyone , who knows, seriously
you could, all that weird stuff let it go
your past self, 21 forever , they even name cloths after the age, sad to think you let past run your life dont let it please you remember this , i promise i feel that people like you well
you need to know you dont have to live in the past. everyone even people with little troubles in family did you know its kind of relative
to what you experience sound cold but true tough love on yourself, face it, normal families they dont know any different they go thru same things
you just seem normal to me now, at least you should be free of that burden forever . i pray for you tonight i bet you do fine in life this point on seriously.

Mar 25, 2010
Yeah! You're worth a better live,&happiness
by: Mac

Rebecca1: Be gentle on yourself as what happend over many years, doesn't just heal overnite or in a blink of an eye. You're on the road to recovery; keep moving forward.Keep us posted. Proud of you, as finally getting to a point were the light of hope & a better life for yourself is not an easy step to take. Abusers to control us, make us feel that it's all about us & that we control or deserve what happens, & that is nothin but a huge ass lie! Take care, & remember you are not alone.

Mar 26, 2010
Be Brave, Be Strong, Be persevering. You are a Winner
by: maurice

Rebecca 1. Good news, your are on the way to recovery from all your went through in your life up to now by Uncaring, Un loving, people who abused you: It is empowering reading, I've started to sort out my issues around my abuse. New beginning at living your life to the full. Sure at 21 one is expected to get the key. You can have it now and open up the door to a new looking and living of life for you. Great you have a Partner and His Family to give you Hope. Rebecca 1 there is LIFE after abuse. Live well, Laugh alot, Love much. One could be killed physically but Thanks Be to God your spirit was not killed. You braved through all those animalistic abuses perpetrated on you you by inhuman beings. Great they are out of your life now. Always believe in your self I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: SIMPLY Rebecca1 because you (I) am worth it. believe it because it is true. At 21 you can have a healthy mind in a healthy body, become active and alive taking part in team sports and cultural activities in your area and community. get that partner in on being so as well. It will do you both a world of good. Journeying with like minded people means you build up aquaintances, make friends in a happy and healthy surrounding. Go for it Rebecca1. With Darlene's hectic schedule she is still re-assuring us she reads and checks on each story she allows on her site. Rebecca1 browse through her site and you'll gain inner believe and strength from her many comments made to her visitors. We can all learn fro her comments how to go about healing from abuse. If you can, please do, talk to a counsellor/therapist about your abuse. You'll be doing yourself a favour if you do. Your life will be turned around. Think Positive, be positive and act positive from this day on in all you do and say. I'M SPECIAL. I LOVE ME. Era go on give that wonderful and beautiful me looking back at you from within the mirror a big hug and cuddle and say I LOVE ME.

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