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Dec 01, 2007
An emotional prison . . .
by: Darlene Barriere - webmaster

Ray, I understand when you say that you are in an emotional prison with no parole, while the pervert who sexually assaulted you remains a free man.

I am delighted that you now realize that you were not to blame, because you WEREN'T to blame. I am delighted to learn that you now know you did not deserve what happened to you, because you DID NOT deserve what happened to you. He was the adult; you were the child. HE was to blame. This predator not only took advantage of your trust; he took advantage of your body and the way it would respond. He left you questioning. He left you confused. He left you in life-long turmoil.

Ray, you had no choice when you were 15. At 54, you do have choices. The emotional prison sentence will be LIFE, but ONLY if you continue to give your assaulter power over you. Take back your power. Do not let this low-life, this child molester steal one more second of your precious life. He isn't worth it. YOU'RE the one who's worth more, Ray, YOU are. You've taken the necessary first steps by seeking therapy and support. The next step is your mind-set. I'll say it again: THE PREDATOR DOESN'T DESERVE ONE MORE SECOND OF YOUR PRECIOUS LIFE!

Dec 04, 2007
Light..
by: Anonymous

Hello Ray,

I am so sorry that you have carried this cross for so long. You had your innocence, youth, trust and much more stolen from you.

Only YOU can give these things back to YOU. Please don't let this evil man take one more second of your life from you. Take control back.

You are LOVED and deserve to be LOVED.

Much love to you xo

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