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May 04, 2008
You WEREN'T bad OR stupid; you were PERFECT as you were...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Pammy, I'm so glad to learn that this website has helped you understand that what your father did to you wasn't your fault and that you didn't deserve to be mistreated. HE was the one with the problem; definitely not you. And your mother was a child abuse enabler. She stood idly by, watching your father abuse you, yet she did NOTHING to protect you from his monstrous ways. Her inaction made her every bit as responsible for the abuse as your father was.

You said they destroyed your life...your parents robbed you of your childhood with the abuse the inflicted, but they didn't destroy YOU. You, Pammy, are strong and wise and have a very good heart. I don't know what is available in the way of counselling in your country, but whatever resources there are, I urge you to take advantage of them. You've earned that kind of help. Stay strong and treat yourself the way you deserve to be treated.

Darlene Barriere
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

May 07, 2008
im with you
by: Anonymous

im very young and my father gets angry very easily...so i go through the same thing, but not AS bad. its still bad though. he has hit me with a DVD case and hits across the face all the time! so i feel for you. sometimes im afraid to go home!

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