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Oct 03, 2010
Nyla:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Personality disorder or something else, as adults, you all have a choice on whether or not to continue to expose yourself to abuse. And don't be too quick to accept what your uncle has said to you. Sometimes parents target a specific child for abuse, and the siblings don't see it as abuse at all. In fact, the siblings are conditioned to believe that all was right and well within the home even though the one child could have been severely and brutally abused. That may or may not be the case with your father. And while I understand your need for an explanation, what's most important in your life now is to make healthy decisions for yourselves. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Oct 04, 2010
My life's happiness and destiny is in my hands
by: maurice

Each of you must accept that as a beginning to make real your reasons and excuses for trying to understand your ADULT fathers behaviour no matter what may or may not have happened him in his childhood: Read carefully and understand Darlene's re-assuring words of reality to you and your siblings: You are all thinking Adults NOW. But still with your childhood minds on the why he was so: He was wrong: He was abusive to you all and to your mother: No excuses: I am afraid: He knew what he was doing was wrong: He should have realised he needed help: Loads of it: Your lives are effected deeply by his ignorant behaviour: You are all Adult thinking siblings now: Stand up for yourselves: Tell your Father he needs help: Speak with a counsellor your self Nyla: He/she will put in perspective all you have written to Darlene and her visitors: Also re-assure you that acting on her comment you will help yourself and your siblings To begin living your lives to the full each day you wake up: Your highly intelligent that's for sure so please love yourself: Be gentle and kind to yourself: Hug and cuddle love into your body and into your life: have the motto: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: because I am WORTH IT: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: change your daily routine and get out there with your friends and likeminded people taking part in team sports and cultural activities: Stop sitting about feeling sorry for yourself and yes even your Father: Live well: Laugh alot: Love much beginning with yourself: Your Motto:

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