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Apr 05, 2011
To No Name:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You're asking questions that most abuse victims ask themselves at some point in their lives. The fact that you're asking them suggests that you may be ready to find some answers. The number one answer is that you have lost your self-esteem. You've lost the ability to believe in yourself and your skills. If you believe you can no longer sing or write poetry, then you'll no longer be able to sing or write poetry. But if you decide to live in the Present moment, rather than in the Past, you can reintroduce yourself to the gifts you still have inside of you. Believe in your abilities. Hone the skills you are now out of practice with. Lean on these natural skills and gifts as a way to build your self-esteem. And then share those gifts with others. Take your power back with those gifts. You have them in you still. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
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Apr 06, 2011
opening your mind and heart
by: michelle f

When you closed your mind and heart you close it to everything the abuse,the memories,the joy,the passion that makes you who you are,try to open your thoughts to nothing just be peaceful,i also write poetry i can not sit and write it and it doesn't come out right if i try to think of words remember the peace you have when the words come,they are given to you for a reason just like your singing,i would also like you to do the poem here with your friends we care about you,we would love to read one,i'm sure it will be awesome like you,who you use to be is in there it's just covered up with all the pain.Which was none of your fault!!!!!!!!!All of who you are will come back please give it time and heal.

Apr 06, 2011
Your mom is out of control
by: Anonymous

Something is seriously wrong with your mother because she had and still has serious problems which she chose to take out on you and she still needs help, but you need help too, so the sooner you tell, the better. Oh, and you are not to blame for her nearly sadistic behavior; she is to blame because abusers choose to abuse. You were the child; she was the adult; she had all the power and she misused it over you. Oh, and mothers who abuse their own children are, in fact, one of the real abusers. Anyway, like I said, please tell someone you really trust and keep telling until he/she will finally listen to you and help you. Counselling also helps.

Apr 06, 2011
Always believe in yourself: Get help: I will: I can: I must because I am WORTH it
by: maurice

There is some one very gifted, tallented, beautiful, kind, good, absolutely highly intelligent and ready to move on in your life and live it to the full: Darlene's site is and can be a new beginnings because her comments are so encourageing, helpful, loving, caring, genuinely sincer from her womans heart to all her visitors: She know there is a genuine human person making a cry for help when they search for and find her safe haven site to share there hurt, pain of abuse: So read her loving words to you: Take them into your heart: work at them: Live the NOW time of your life to the full: Keep letting go, making a sense of by thinking positive; acring positive: being positive in all you do and say about your beautiful and wonderful self: Be gentle and kind to yourself and your body: Take ownership of the beauty you see in the mirror: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: Because I am WORTH it:

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